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I care too much about things and people liking me or not upsetting people. I wish I could just say "fuck everything" and not care- not care if my bf leaves, not care if I'm not liked, etc. How can I do this? And also, is this normal?
Sounds like you are stressing out.
Try this out.List down all your worries and leave a space under each one.In this space write down the worse thing that can happen and also the best thing that can happen.
When you have done this ask yourself who gets to decide what happens in each of these situations?
Remember the only things that you can control in reality is what you do.
I just don't care either. People think it's important to have friends: fuck them. Losers. They are probably hopeless people and say that because they have not had friends. But I haven't either. But I've experienced having none because they were somewhere else. It was kinda' boring but they can go die in a large tin of prawns with alcohol and chutney.
I used to be that way (I cared too much what others thought), but now I'm caring less and less about what others think. If they don't like me, then they can go f*ck themselves!
this is the first story I found that introduced me to the IIN site.
I found it by typing in Google something like: "I just don't give a fuck."
lol
holy fuck man, our minds are on the same wavelength. I want nothing more than to give a fuck. it just depends what about. i want to give a fuck about people that care about me but not about other people in general and anything else in general. so i decided i'd do that. i just wouldn't give a fuck!! believe me, it GOT me places. everytime i thought of something that hurt, i would look at my ryuk poster and think "YOU KNOW WHAT?? I DON'T GIVE A FUCK!!" worked outside of the house as well. getchaself a portable music player ASAP and listen to heavy metal. constantly. block everyone out and believe in how utterly superior YOU are to everybody else. FUCK EVERYONE JUST DON'T GIVE A FLYING FUCK!!!!
I like smileyteas response. Get organized amd check out your priorities. ALSO. Be happy with who you are, NO MATTER tje circumstanced. You ad of God. beautiful child of God. Gid IS love. He wants nothing short ofbthe best for you. But sometimesbthe best is lessons learned while goingbthrough "the fire". I have been homeless before, been broke most of my life. Now I finally have some nice.things and a few.good.frirnds. An amazing son. ill leave u with a quote. "ALL things work for the good, for those who love God.". Romans
this is really normal. its the exact same for me an i get really anxious cuz im only 13 and there isnt really much that i can give a fuck about besides school and even though im top set for every class i still get really panicky and want to be like the class dumbasses and not give a damn
Thanks for the replies. I'm trying to just "do me" and forget everyone else. The more I say it the more I convince myself that I really don't care...and your right the one who said that I'm in control.
sometimes careing too much about everyone else can get exhausting.
you sound like you need a break, take some time for yourself, relax:)
life would be easier if you didn't care, but you do care.
Keep living and learning! I care less and less what people think with each passing day. I'm 22 and I pretty much don't care what other people think. Watch a documentary on punk and listen to the Clash or the Sex Pistols, it will help you!
Learning how to not give a fuck is an important part of self growth. Check out these links.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUdHX1Bent0
http://www.reddit.com/r/howtonotgiveafuck/