I want to murder the girl who stole my boyfriend

I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like he was never really over her, or you weren't that important to him, if he wasn't willing to cut off contact with her. In the long run, you're better off without that in your life. It sounds like, even if she hadn't stolen him back you'd still have to deal with her being in his life.

Being angry and even hating someone is a normal part of the grieving process. It's healthy; it helps give you the strength to move on. It sounds like this isn't the case for you, though.

As long as you're obsessed with them, she keeps control over you and she wins. She's manipulating you just as much as she manipulated him when he was with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is shake it off and move on and not let her drag you down to her level. Bitterness will only eat you alive and destroy you; it won't hurt her at all. Please try your hardest to move on, and get some counselling if you can't do it on your own.

Sadly in this situation it's very easy to blame the ex-girlfriend, but it's obviously the boyfriends fault. I remember when I broke up with the 1st person I ever dated he told my "best friend" anything she wanted to hear to get with her. After they were even together he would stalk me and call me and ask if I would take him back. And he would show up at my house. I tried to just be nice and be friends with him. I mean we did date three years! But she freaked out and even though I owed her nothing I had no issues letting him go. The moral of the story is, that you can't blame her for what he does. He obviously mistreating the both of you.

I know a girl that flew all the way from another country to steal my boyfriend. She started out by sending him expensive gifts, and he still stayed with me, so this bitch flew from europe to america to meet up with him. and then guess what, she trapped him by getting pregnant by him. and she said everything was an accident!! She knew all about me and that we were going to get married and planned on having a baby and then she did this all behind my back! because if you say, let the best woman win, obviously it is not her. She is manipulative, scheming, and a liar. She is a poor excuse for a woman. obviously has some problems with her self esteem to STEAL another woman's man and destroy and sabotage a relationship. He was my soulmate. And for anyone out there who says that girls don't steal men, and that the man goes to her, that is a bunch of bullshit. Get it straight. If a man is already in a relationship and another girl knows about it and still continues to pursue him- non stop- then obviously, she STOLE him. He is STOLEN. Taken from you. He is not for her. He is for you. You should definitely be mad at the girl- and your feelings of wanting to kill her are perfectly normal. and anyone who tells you to move on can kiss my ass because they have never been in this situation and they don't even have a clue of how to understand. If they were in the same situation, they would never ever say that.If it ever happend to them, but I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy. I cried every single night, while she was fking my man. girls need to get some class and stay away from men that are already taken. go find your own man somewhere else and get a life. if I was younger I would have gone toe to toe with that b and told her to get the f off my man.

I WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ALREADY!

Kindof sounds like my situation right now.
I love my boyfriend to bits. He lost his virginity to his ex and vice versa, and when we started dating, his ex made sure i was aware of that. Posting comments like "You were my first love, my first .... and I'll always love you" blah blah, little things like this kept happening over time we broke up once, and he went back to her, which made my insecurities about her worse and from then on, more and more happened blah blah and I honestly think i'm going insane, I too think about this girl at least once a day and I dream about smashing her..
We sould do a team up and smash the two girls lol

You can't steal people away your man left you in his own will

Violence begets violence. Turn the other cheek and beat that bitches ass. But killing is wrong. Nothings that serious. NOTHING!

Leave him now for ur own sanity. And yes I do understand. I understand very well

get even, you start dating someone else and pubicly display your affection to you new guy. whats good for the goose is good for the gander.dont be maad at "her" - you are giving her too much power. she is simply not worth it.pretty soon he may grow tired of her anyway.

Pathetic girls, try bending over a few more times for your boyfriend and he won't be so quick to dump you. In all honesty he loves his ex, not you, get over it, grow up, your just a time killer until she's back in town and he can sneak around again, imagine how they are all over eachother when they fool around. I bet he tells her she's a lot more attractive than you and that he'd rather be with her than you.

He isn't a thing so wtf how can he be stolen?!

Wouldn't that be nice, everyone could be with the person of their dreams lmao

You didn't mean shit to him that's what's up

Burn her house down. Arson is a very difficult crime to prosecute if u do it correctly. And if ur really pissy, sit out in the woods or whatever with a suppressed bushmaster with some night vision and wing whoever comes running out. Not hard to build a remote firebomb with a burner phone.

I hate bitches. Seriously, you guys all have the right to want to kill them. I just hope you don't because they are so not worth going to jail.
It's a pity that so many manipulative girls are around, and that guys can't seem to figure out which ones are just horrible. I do think that the manipulative bitches only show their good side.
There wasn't really any point to this post, sorry about that.

i think if there weren't so many little sluts running around trying to cause drama then men wouldn't be tempted to be unfaithful all the time.
in my case she had many warnings to back off, from him also but she was so persistent that he ended up always giving in and talking to her again. it's pathetic to use your hold over a guy like that when you know he's trying to move on.

this happened to me also! Even tho she cheated on him and is a complete b*tch, aftey they broke up, they still talked and saw eachother. She, claiming their bestfriends. Which is bullsh*t. After we started dating, he would still go to her house for hourss. They dont see eachother anymore, or so i know and hope. He says he never cheated but who knows... And i go on her facebook and look at her pics and i would get insanely mad. And she was the 1st person he kissed and slept with, which pisses me off too. I want to just kill her and i know if i seen her, i probably will try and knock her out. Sigh...

I think all of you should be mad at the asshole who f-ed you over for an ex. They are the ones who really hurt you.

No man is worth jail.. Keep it moving if he left that quickly he' ll do it again.. Take a deep breath.. I know it's hard.. You can do better

Sometimes I want to murder the person I like because they don't show it back. Yours is completley normal.

look up kill her by soko. perfect song for what your going through.

if your going through his emails and shit then dont u think maybe ur making him feel trapped i mnean i hate when people say i dont trust u but there the ones going thru there partners private stuff and its mostly woman that do this
and also u cant say its wrong for someone not to love ur ex jus cus ur with him it doesnt work that way she didnt steal him away from u he went with her
and the killing thing your just venting its a natural thing

I want to murder the girl that stole my boyfriend too, and she also bullied my. She was the biggest b***** I ever saw. Women like these are what wrong with the world. Just because she have no life doesn't mean she should ruin my.

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