I want to know if i can win her back still after 4 years

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i have split up with my girlfriend after 4 years, well she split up with me. i have been unfaithful on and off throughout the whole relatioship, by that i mean chatting to girls or kissed them ive never slept with them, i am 18 and my ex is 20. i recently got too drunk and made a pass at her 16 year old sister however i cant remember it , that was the last straw for her, now she does not want anything to do with me and tells me there is no hope for us now. now she is pregnant with my baby her 6 weeks scan is tomorrow, i know she still cares because she is letting me take her for a meal today, however she still seems adiment that we are not getting back will this just take time or is this going to be forever, i cant live without her.

she still cares, she'll be back. 2
too much damage has been done old chap. 6
fight for her, and you will succeed. 7
you kind sir, have no chance. 9
give it time, and dont drink again. 8
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  • baryaqueen
    11 years ago

    Wow why do kids these days have those kind of problems.
    You should just concentrate more on your studies and look for a successful career before going into those activities and rather than having sex with whores.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Yeah... All she is gonna think about is you wanting her sister. Especially with those prego hormones. You may have a chance years and years later IF you are a good dad.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I'm not going to give you a lecture, but if there's someone you can't live without, you really have to treat her better than you have done. Can you live without the flirting? If not, then I think you have to have the flirting only. That way, nobody gets hurt.

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    • claayton93
      11 years ago

      the fact is, i can, when i found out about the baby it really hit home and made me realise how serious my life is and what we have is. But all i get now is constant reminders that she doesnt want me back like i literally got a text 5 minutes ago telling me how shit i have made her feel but she doesn't understand that i'm trying to make it better. thanks for commenting though, nice to see someone cares enough to elaborate on the situation.

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      • dappled
        11 years ago

        Well, if you are committed to making changes in your life and she sees that, who knows? Don't push it, though (or play up to it). Be a good father, be patient. You may or may not have a future with her but if you act up, you'll guarantee you don't have one.

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        • claayton93
          11 years ago

          well we went to the doctors today, even more bad news we have had a failed pregnancy. Emotions are everytwhere right now and not sure whats going to happen.

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          • dappled
            11 years ago

            I'm very sorry to hear that. Keep yourself strong, yeah? She must be suffering badly too. I know things are tough, but if you see it as an opportunity to show how much you've changed, I'm sure she'll appreciate it.

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    You're going to be a dad, so it's time for you to man up and take responsibility for your actions. Making your ex fall in love with you is not your main priority. Being a good dad is.

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