I want to kill him.

My boyfriend demands the passwords to all websites I sign up for and my email. He even checks my call register. Every time I tell him that he doesn't have a right to he wants to break up and asks what I have to hide. He doesn't really have reason to doubt but I had an old pic of my ex on my phone and when he hacked into my web history he found porn... But I didn't think it was that big a deal. He did. All that happened two years ago. I have never cheated on him. Although I want to now... or strangle him... Is it normal that he is that insecure... :?

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  • What a bastard, you deserve better than this.

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  • DannyKanes

    No, not normal. Dump him or next tine he threatens to leave, laugh and tell him to fuck off then, you don't need someone like that :-)

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  • Echoes

    Abusive relationship in the cradle, run away.

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  • fruitlover

    My ex was like that too... I'm glad we broke up

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  • FunkyHuskyCoolGirlYuki

    It's normal to want to strangle him. What he is doing is not normal.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    This is a sign of an abusive relationship. He is very controlling and possessive. You should dump him NOW. Do not take this kind of shit from him. He does not love you. He wants control and dominance. People like this can not love anyone. They are insecure and manipulative. All they want is power. The fact he says he is going to leave is to guilt you into giving him more control. When you leave he is going to regret it. He might even beg for you back. This is just a head game. Do not take this from him.

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  • poof!gone122

    that is not normal. get yourself out. this is not good. it will turn abusive quickly.

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  • phoenix_paradox

    Send him to hell, hes not respeting your privacy hes controlling you thats insane. Finish him!!!

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  • MissOpheliac

    just talk to him about it and hope for the best

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Normal... my boyfriend is like this too

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  • dump him.

    ah yeah and porn is evil btw. expect lesbian porn

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