I want to have sex with my crush

I met her in facebook. actually she was with me in junior high school and high school for 2 years, so I know her attitude a bit. We never becoming so close during those times, but I already crush on her, but my weakness is I kind of a shy guy, until a few months ago, 10 years from tha last time I met her, I add her as a friend, or is it the other way around, she add me as a friend because I asked her first to be my friend, anyway, I confess to her that I actually like her, and her reaction is.....she asked me to call her and after some messages conversations, she asked me to go on date after my graduation, yup, I haven't graduate from my bachelor degree yet. Well, if everything goes well, I will graduate on November. The problem is...I know I didn't go out much so I haven't met many girls, but what I feel now is that I feel that the girl that I was crush on is always in my head and I somehow think that she is the most beautiful girl I've ever met, eventhough other thinks she is just sweet. but the thing is that I want to marry her by the time I already got a job, maybe a year from now, because I couldn't think of any other girls but her....is it normal? or should I look for other girls?

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  • THESHEEPFKER

    I was with my crush for about 4 years, she also...very hot. We live in a Rural area of the country. One day she just stopped taking calls, wouldn't come to the door, and sent me an email saying she wanted to take a break. We were "intimate" probably 4 to 5 times a week. It's both mentally, and physically draining when you lose what you love. So I decided to try something completely off the wall and I suggest you give it a shot especially before you talk about marriage. One night, about 11:30pm when it was Dark outside I went to her home ( she resided with her parents ). Well, they live on a pig farm. I took one of the hogs, and trust me they are not small. These are large feeders. Well, I brought one who was about to get slaughtered up to the front of the lawn. Lubed up, and stuck it in his arse hole. Needless to say is was a loud Pig squeel. He or she continued to do so to the point of her parents and her waking up and turning on the porch light. There I was naked, fking that pig, and I yelled at her " It's tighter than you ya fking tramp". I completed inside the sow, then got in my car and left. Im just saying you might wanna give it a shot.

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  • Petadude

    just show up at her house with a bottle of malibu rum, some condoms and bottle of lube and she will get the idea.

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  • joliegems

    You sound like of like a creepy stalker. I hope you aren't going to hurt her if she rejects you. Make sure you don't come on too strong. If you start telling her you want to marry her on the 1st date she is going to bolt.

    Also, don't take this wrong, but your whole story sound very immature. You sound more like a guy in HS rather than full grown man.

    I don't know, but my weirdo antenna goes up with this one....

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    • you see, why I say I want to have sex with her, it's not that I'm a stalker or smt, but I'm 28 years old, and my libido is quite strong these last months, so I kind of wondering, I love this girl, amd I find her very attractive, so I couldn't possibly find another girl beside her, of course, I won't bump on her and say I want to have sex with you, no, I'll date her, for a year and after I got a job, maybe I'll marry her, during that time, I'll have sex with myself, but...to know she is my ideal sex partner, makes me wondering, I'm 28, and my eager of sex is very high, like a volcano that will erupts, and I have this girl that I adore so much....so...I have millions of reasons to be with her...like 99 yes and 1 no, but becoming a stalker...no...you see, this is my first love...maybe the last one too. so please pray for me will you? thanks....

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    • ctbpdx

      Lol, I just started college; not all of us are like that. :P

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  • ctbpdx

    Go for it, man! Getting married that quickly when you haven't technically been in a relationship with her is a bit hast, but do what feels good! Go with the flow, treat yourself to something good!

    BTW, posting that you want to have sex with her isn't exactly the way to say 'I think I love a girl and want to be with her', it's more like creepy 'I-want-to-sleep-with-her-then-dump-her'. Just thought I'd add that.

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    • I won't dump her, why should I? I love her, with all my heart, but can I be with her? God will decide.

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  • Ironwafflez

    wow this is close to spam! stop with all the: "Is sex natural to want?" crap! We dont wanna hear about your love life, we wanna hear bizarre crazy stuff!

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  • justmetalking

    It's clear from your post that you have no experience with relationships. A successful marriage is not about some fantasy. People meet, get to know each other, find common ground then begin to develop a bond. This bond should carry you through good times and bad, in sickness and in health. You have no foundation with this woman to even begin entertaining the thought of marriage. By having such a shallow view of the institution of marriage you are setting yourself up for a miserable life. I suggest you lower your expectations and take this one step at a time. Get to know this woman and see how well you connect. Sex may last 1 hour in a day, but you live with this person 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Your relationship better be based on something more that your strong but temporary libido.

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  • nuckinfuts

    WTF holy shit every 1 dozen't need a paogeaph

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  • orbitgumchewer

    I take it you are not an english major. But with that aside.. It does sound a bit weird of you saying you want to marry this chick when you really don't know eachother? I mean sure, you may have known her for years.. but tis more like you know of her, not about her.

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