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I have urges about my brother and dreams of us having sex, we talk openly about sex with other making me interested on trying him for myself.
Totally normal. This site has hundreds of such posts each week or so. Go for it.
I say GO ahead , am giving you my special green light. If he's bangable do it.
Yes but it's nice to have Ho's for sisters. Esp when 1 of them loves to suck your cock.
How is it not normal? We're all related in some way. Just think. It's illegal, of course. It shouldn't be, it's pathetic.
Doing it with a family member can be risky. dytrog has a great suggestion.
Start with a game of truth or dare, that's how my cousin did with me and his sister, he was satisfied though, he got to see me fuck his sisters tight ads and pussy!!! He got the courage to fuck her later
If you both want to and play safe, go for it.
All the haters don't realize people are comfortable with different things, remember at the end of the day, their not there, it's you and if it feels right to you... like I said play safe.
Do not tell your brother about your dreams, as someone has suggested! Your brother would be freaked the hell out. Just ignore the dreams and any feelings of wanting to have sex with him. It is not normal to think like that.
You do realize that having sex with anyone, including your brother CAN result in pregnancy??? As well, it is easy to get STD's. These alone should make you think twice, three times.
Next, you need to talk to your brother, you can start by letting him know you are having "weird dreams" without getting too specific...I am sure he is going to "get it", and tell you "no way", at which point, you can still say, "no, it wasn't with you, someone who LOOKED like you". or something that gets you out easily if your brother is really freaked, which, I would certainly be if that was any conversation one my 3 sisters EVER had with me.
Talking about it with him might help get this out of your head, at least help you realize how wrong it would be to go through with it.
The reason you are having these feelings have everything to do with your admiration for him. You probably think your brother is cute as well, especially if he is OLDER than you. It is common for younger girls to like and have crushes on their older male relatives.
You need to tell yourself, or, you can even say to him "I hope that, when I DO find the right guy I want to have a relationship with, physically, that he is just like YOU!" That would be a HUGE compliment to him, and, something YOU should remember when choosing guys to date, have relations with....you want a guy who likes you, respects you, that you admire, and can see yourself with for a long time, that he is a good person. Sex and sexual feelings lasts only moments. Relationships are for LIFE. You want to have a close one with your brother, and, for any guy you choose, you want it to be special.
I am guessing you are very young. It is very normal to have "urges", your hormones are out of control. But, I GOT to think there are plenty of ways you can channel these feelings, talk to someone else close to you that you can trust, help you realize how crazy your thoughts in reality are.
Second, stop talking about sexual matters with your brother! You are supposed to have those conversations with your friends. Your Mom is also a good person to get honest, frank info from. Also, I am sure there are counselors at school you can discuss this with. If your bro has questions, again, he has HIS sources he should seek. Obviously, these conversations are warping your mind. Again, I got a feeling, if your bro knew your urges to get with him, he'd tell you the same thing. Just not worth doing!!!
Third, again, presumably you are young. Believe it or not, you are going to grow up, and it is going to happen quicker than you realize, at which time, there will be plenty of opportunities to have more "appropriate" relations with someone NOT related to you, that, you don't have to really worry about the "after-effects" of a physical relationship with.
Keep in mind, if you do act out on your feelings, have sex with your brother, assuming he is even interested in that, word gets out that you have had incest, you will be looking at years of being "branded" as a weirdo, you will be looking at possible criminal actions (depending on your age difference), as well as a TOTAL weirdness in your family, how they treat you, how your friends deal with you "Oh, here comes so-and-so, isn't she the one who had sex with her brother? How weird is she???"
Think about what you are proposing...sex with your brother? What makes you think the is even remotely thinking about that? The worst thing you do is propose the physical intimacy, and he rejects and hates you forever, thinking you are a weirdo! Or, he takes you up on it, and, minutes after it is over, you realize the HUGE mistake you just made!!!
Don't do it. Abstain until you are old enough, MATURE enough to understand the repercussions of your actions.
Ok I'll fill you in on a few things
my brother and I grew apart from each other as we have different mothers, I'm 22 and he's 11months older than me
He never knew about me until 4 years ago and from then we've been like best friends and I find him attractive and it's feelings I can't control
also I'm aware that having sex can result in pregnancy as to why I know how to put a condom on a guy and I know how to swallow a pill
but as I said above we didn't know each other for most of our lives and we talk about mainly everything, he's the one that mainly brings up the conversations of having sex with other girls and makes me feel like I want to try him myself and I do love him
I think it depends on the age. If you're talking pre-teen/teenager, then I think it's not *too* normal, but our minds are curious and strange around that time. If someone was in like their 30's and later... then maybe not so much.
In the end, I think it's normal for such thoughts in that category to pop up in your head; it's just not so normal to act upon them. We are flawed in nature, but it is our choices that define our character.
only have sex with him if he is older than you or around the same age, if he is a lot younger than you then it's not right and you're taking advantage of him.