I want to have an alternate personality

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Kinda hard for me to explain but I've wanted to do this for awhile, i put it off because i was discouraged, anyway, I am a girl but I want to have another person of me that's a guy, and no not transgender or any of that. Just like on certain days i can pass for a guy with a different identity, make friends as this guy, party, have girls friends (only doing things that wouldnt require a penis but yes making out with straight girls and touching them and stuff, and no im not gay or anything I only get turned on by this if they are straight and think I am a guy). i know it's probably weird and douchey or something but as a girl i am practically asexual. but the thought of people thinking i'm a guy turns me on so much. and no i would never rape or molest someone, but does it really count as that if the girl genuinely thinks im a guy and is attracted to me (its happened before but only online)

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  • Holzman_67
    10 years ago

    I think there's infinite room in one's personality to explore it. I think this is already part of your personality, not something you have to create seperate to it. Human beings are amazingly complex, layered beings. You can't always place society's labels on these things. Personality is an evolution all of its own.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      I like what you've said here.

      I can relate to the idea of an opposite sex alter ego. But I think my male side is somewhere between homosexual and asexual because other females kinda freak me out. I can't imagine doing something with another woman unless it's all above the waist though and even then I wouldn't want to do that in my male alter ego.

      I think my male side is more about being one of the boys and partaking in typically male activities with males. My male side is not so much about sex but about being freed from that which is typically female.

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  • nothing2
    10 years ago

    if it walks like a duck. quacks like a duck. it's a duck

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    I wish I had multiple personalities.

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    • handsignals
      10 years ago | pl

      Shut the fuck up handsignals.

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  • charli.m
    10 years ago

    "but does it really count as that if the girl genuinely thinks im a guy and is attracted to me (its happened before but only online)"

    Am I the only one who read that bit?

    I don't think it's ok to fool someone like that, no. That's toying with their emotions. You seem to be saying you don't think it's a problem if they are attracted to you - what if they think it's the start of a genuine relationship?

    As with most things, nothing wrong with the fantasy, but if you actually go ahead and do it, and it can hurt someone - be it physically, emotionally or mentally - then that is NOT ok.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I agree. I've done it before (online) and I felt pretty bad, but I think she was just a horny girl, and she left me instantly when I merely hinted at an orientation other than straight male. I only knew her for a couple days but it turned me on so much. I only do this in small meaningless encounters with women on line, but it makes me feel so extremely good and sexy when anybody perceives me as a male... I wish I could have the same type of encounters with women in real life

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  • IsitUnique
    10 years ago

    You swam too far, but hey girls drank from their mom's breast, so it's natural for them to be a little gay.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    I wish I were a girl so it would be a lot easier to approach other girls and have dirty sex with them. Lesbians are a lot more adventurous than straight women when it comes to things like fetishes.

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  • Energy
    10 years ago

    So remind me again...how is this not transgender?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      it's really hard to explain. and maybe i dont quite understand it either, but transgenders supposedly identify as transgenders, that is, they have some label like FTM. I do not want people to know i am "FTM", i just want them to think i am a real guy. supposedly transgenders do not like to do that because it is deceptive..? idk. plus, i would only want to do it sometimes.

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      • Energy
        10 years ago

        Nope. Some transmen choose to identify fully as male. In my opinion, it's actually the best way. For safety reasons especially. It's none of anyone's business what's in your pants. Except for your partner of course. I have a lot of FTM friends. Most are stealth. Meaning, only few people know, like other trans guys online. But I also have those who are fully open. It's up to the person really. I think stealth is the way to go though. Safety reasons and personal reasons. ;)

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          But they are still "transmen" and "ftm" to you... I don't want anyone to know, even my "partner", that is how it is different

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          • Energy
            10 years ago

            They're not. They're MEN. Simply put, MEN. On the other hand, if you got all your surgeries done, you could fully pass 100% male to anyone. Including your partner. I honestly just wish there was only one gender.. I always get stuck wanting to be a different one each day.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              10 years ago

              I'm sorry, but I do not believe in the surgery part. besides, I dont want to be permanently stuck as one or the other. so I agree with your last sentence..

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Maybe you already possess it. I'm not sure about your reasons for having it though.

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  • screwthestandard
    10 years ago

    I'm a girl too and I feel the same way. Some days I'll purposely try to look like a guy, put my hair up in a beanie, etc. Sometimes it turns me on to pretend I'm a guy but I don't want to become a guy completely, though at times I wish I had a penis... But um, wtf is up with the last part? You're asking if rape or molestion wouldn't be called rape or molestion if they thought you were a guy? ....huh?

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  • Creativeusername29
    10 years ago

    You would probably not pass for a guy in person and your probably gay, definitely gay.

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    • Energy
      10 years ago

      Lol. Are you joking? She could DEFINITELY PASS. You have no idea how many men you see who have actually been born female, and are now stealth.

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