I want to dump her, and dump rotten spaghetti on her.

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i was in a happy and loving relationship for about a year and a half.

She said she loved me and the feeling was mutual. Everything seemed great and we had trust and respect for one another. We would go on fancy dates on weekends, and hang out casually at either of our requests through the week. It was genuine, no doubt.

She has been caught-- by yours truly --secretly flirting with multiple guys on Twitter. Liking their pictures and commenting back, complementing them and all. Not in a "friendly" context either, it's DEFINITELY much more than that.

I'm so hurt and angry. I confronted her and she tried to lie and brush it off. Naturally she covered up her digital footprint, and will be on her best behavior for a short while until this blows over. Which it won't.

Is it normal that I am extremely infuriated that she is showing show much attention to these guys? I feel so stupid and that I wasted my time on this chick. Anyone else ever been in this situation?

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  • 213
    9 years ago

    Dump her without doing something bad to her .

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  • Skycircle
    9 years ago

    I wouldn't do something like that . Talk to her about how much she truly hurt you, and if she still doesn't understand then I hate to say it might be a good Idea to simply leave her

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    It seems like a common issue these days. People have different limits when it comes to what is acceptable and what isn´t.
    When in a relationship I reply with a single "Thanks" to comments from other guys on my pictures, and this is if I am in a nice mood! Usually I take it as an attempted flirt and dismiss them entirely by replying "MM I know" or "My boyfriend thinks so too"

    I don´t say that everyone needs to be as rude as I am but to flirt online is never an okay behaviour.

    If you think that she deserves a second chance, give it to her but make sure it is her LAST. If you have some self- respect however- Dump that douche.

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      My boyfriend thinks so too is an excellent response.

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago

        That usually scares people off. I can not really stand guys who claims that they were certainly not after anything but friendship when they complimented me.

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        • RoseIsabella
          9 years ago

          Amen to that, I freaking hate creeps!

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          • (s)aint
            9 years ago

            Agreed! Though I have came to the point were I find it really amusing to reject them and tell them why they wont ever get a girl with that behaviour.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Leave her.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    I couldn't let spaghetti become rotten, I'd eat it before then.

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  • bleach_baby
    9 years ago

    I wouldn't dump someone for liking people's pictures on Twitter. I might ask them to stop, but I wouldn't dump them.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    9 years ago

    a rotten meat productd be far more appropriate and disgustin than pasta

    meatd take much less time to rot to the needed level too

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  • badmanalive
    9 years ago

    You my friend need to digest this song.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkNa5xzOe5U

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