I want to do it with my girlfriend but this feeling won't let me

Sure i think so, that you should make it special for someone you love but what isnt normal is putting capitals at the start of every word

I agree with what wayoutthere said, but it doesn't explain why you wouldn't mind having sex with someone you don't care about. Sex should be something beautiful and natural enjoyed between people who love & care about each other, not some anonymous thing like a taxi cab ride.

But it still makes sense and seems common... I remember the one time I really fell deeply in love, I did not want to have sex with the girl and I didn't masturbate for months. So I guess we're funny like that...

A lot of people have similar beliefs, but this is not normal. It comes from the belief that sex is dirty, that there is something improper or impure about it, that it is degrading in some way. Such erroneous belief has its origins in Christianity (as well as other religions) and has been widespread for hundreds of years.

You need to reject such belief and recognized that sex is perfectly normal and healthy, and that there is nothing improper about it. Accepting this at an intellectual level, however, is a far cry from accepting it at an emotional level, since there are undoubtedly hundreds of little things attached to this original belief that you have been carrying for years. You need to go through them, one by one, and reject them. Every time you have a bad "feeling," you need to introspect and analyze WHY you are having that bad feeling. Eventually, your emotions will be congruent with this new attitude.

People rome the streets 24/7!!! Lol!! And how in her house when the parents are there??!

No i dont think so^^^ even though I am a vergin my friend touches me I touch her I mean.... Like I feel as if I do wanna do her but thats the thing..like the giy up their said^^^^ give her the love Muscle,... But the real question is when and where??0.o I live in chicago and you need to find space lol.!

it sounds like you are not old enough to have sex so don't. When the time is right there will be no problems

I just wanna say these comments are hella funny!! Society makes a big deal about girls wen their not ready and that guys should respect that. Obviously ur not ready but she is and she should respect that. You need to tell her though that she's not the problem cuz this can devestate the person that is ready making them think there's something wrong with them or u just don't love them as much as the person who is ready loves u. Good luck!

If u make her climax it will be good and loving! Not like u r using her or anything. U r really sweet.

It's not dirty if you two are in love (like someone else stated) You guys have been dating a while now. If she's a respectable lady (not easy and skanky) then go for it. She knows what she's doing. She loves you and wants to give herself to you. And like wise would like you to give your body. This is the greatest gift lovers can give one another. Enjoy the purity, passion and intimacy with this woman you care so much about. :)

you're in love with her like you perhaps would love a sister, so, its a protection kind of thing.

you don't romanticize her much or wat?
man, dick should get up, or have a checkup
maybe you don't wanna ruin the perfect friendship

and hey, sex is not raping for god sakes' even with someone u love closely as that g of urs.

man, go ahead, give her the love muscle ;)

That was really sweet some how, haha.

If you two really love each other...as long as you let her know why. I mean, if you don't have sex with her and she wants it, she might feel like it's HER or something.
But it's understandable, and it just shows that you don't want to hurt her or mess anything up. Sex can mess a lot of things up, but after 8 months?! You guys should be good.

I Can't Think Of A Better Time To Have Sex Than After Your Girlfriend Tells You She Wants To Have Sex With You.

Get Over This Feeling And Do Her.

It is extremely noble of you to respect her this much. I wish all us guys were like this. If you don't think she's fully ready, then don't do it, but most importantly - talk to her! If you explain your feelings, she'll be more likely to understand.

If you really love her, then have sex with her. It's not dirty if you guys are really in love.

Your gf has a very low self esteem...

Mabey its because she's scared she might lose you, or mabey she wants to prove something to herself...

Well trust me if you dont feel 100%% ready to do it, then dont...

Sex will be much better when you wait until the rite time, you'll feel more save, secure and you will enjoy it much better...

Well either way, the choise is yours...

I think thats very sweet of you. And i know how you feel, because my best friends boyfriend is sort of like that. Trust your feeling though, your feelings toward her might change afterward.

You have a madonna/whore complex. Grow up and start seeing women as real people.

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BOO WHOO My girlfriend is the best. Get over it and lay some pipe.

Isn't It Annoying Talking With All The First Letters Of The Words Capitalised?

You don't deserve her. Leave her without making her feel she has the problem. It's you. You are totally ignorant about sex and love. Leave her and do not, I repeat, do not lay your hang ups and immaturity on her.

ok
i'm not really sure if i'm getting this right, but i think you are a different breed of males. maybe a different breed of human being.

i mean, she's asking for it...

srsly. Give her the wood

Just give her the wood dude.