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I want to cheat. I know my conscience would eat me alive but our sex life is boring. He's not aggressive or sexy enough. I need someone that can really turn me out and that I feel physically attracted to. I don't know what to do because the guilt would be too much but I really want to experience someone else without him knowing or us breaking up
We have a very open relationship and my wife having a very high sex drive has slept with a number of guys but has always told me about it. We have a very good sex life but she just wants more. Yes you could say it is cheating on our marriage but I'm fully supportive of her desires, yes I know she is have sex regularly with other guys, and as she hates condoms has bareback sex. By talking about it and being open with one another has cemented our relationship. Speak with him, explain how you feel and he may be happy to share your sex life with someone else I'd you keep him fully involved. So not go behind his back and cheat as this will lead to the two of you splitting up.
Do you have sex with other women? I know this a no go zone for him he'd never allow it
wtf you need to sign him up for sex ed clearly. Don't ask on here. they'll tell you to use condoms with stranges.
Oh hell naw! Is it your husband or bf?? He gotta get with the it or get lost. The stroke must not be good either, ughhhh. Try to show him how and tell him you want it. Do yall talk about it?
You should tell him. If he isn't satisfying you, tell him that you want to try something new. If he can't be aggressive, try something like BDSM, where there's a power dynamic, so that he might not even need to act aggressively, since the situation and fantasy provide it inherently.
If he makes no attempt to satisfy you after you've told him that you feel this way, and suggested things that he could try with you, then break up with him and find someone new. Do not cheat on him. He's bad in the bedroom. That's not a reason to break his heart and his trust.
P.S. A tip might be suggesting an open relationship as a very last resort. However, if he isn't on board and you haven't even asked about a different style of sex, he may take this as you not liking him at all and break up with you.
if its not a 3sum its cheating. if he were bored and fucked around you would steal the house ,kids ,pets ,car ,friends , his income. He should catch you and kill you.
Girl take a number!!! I'm in the same boat!! Ive been tryna talk myself outta cheating all week! So far successful but It's tempting. I know exactly where to find the good D I just don't wanna be a cheater ya know and its too many stds running rampant. But maybe try to work with your current partner, maybe he'll get the hang of it if yall communicate and open up about the aggression and other sexual needs. You also said he's not sexy enough, please elaborate....
You need to talk to him and tell him what turns you on. If you love him, don't cheat.
You are setting yourself up for disaster. Your probably boring, your mentality is boring and just be grateful he even fucks you! Go be a ho