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I want to change my personality. I realized my personality is so messy and bad and weird. I want to be a gentleman. But how can i let it "melt in" with others? Would changing my personality make others think i am some type of identity disorder? How do i blend in? And is it normal?
You don't have to change your whole personality, just stop being a messy slob.
Be who you are. Do you really want to craft and act out a fake personality to make fake friends? be who the fuck you are dog. don't be a dick to people but own who you are as a person.
First of all focus, research about what type of personality you want to be, do a list, when you have all set up stay doing small changes, faking it, don't be afraid, you only will fast in the beginning, then that personality you want will stay to melt within you. Be pacient be real and you will change
It doesn't work. Even if you manage to keep up appearances (which you probably won't) it will just make you feel empty inside because none of it is real. It will make everything seem meaningless and you will eventually go crazy.
People evolve their whole lives. Don’t force it, but let it be if you feel like you need a change. If you’re under 25 you’ll notice lots of people around you going through changes. Normal.
You could add resilience to the personality you've already got. That means you learn to "roll with the punches" better.
I mean it's going to be hard to change your personality it's like changing wbo you is as a person. Advice I would give is just be you everyone is different and made in different types of style. Are you happy when you act weird/messy?