I want to break up with my gf but i don't iin?

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i'm 20 my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. She's my first girlfriend. She's really nice and we've never argued and i'm completely in love with her. We are both virgins but i've wanted to have sex for ages, but she's not ready & I respect that. I feel left behind by everyone and i'm ready, but I don't want to push her into it. I really love her, I don't want to break up with her, but I do. IIN? i just want to know if my feelings are normal, because I don't know.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You shouldn't worry what other people are up to. You have found a very rare relationship but you won't realise until you've lost it. Then you're going to meet some really silly bitches that you do argue with and you'll want your gf back.

    Sex isn't everything in a relationship, and it will change the dynamics!

    Good luck to you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well what if she was only ready in 10 years? Would you be able to wait that long? After three years of dating and you're still not "ready" well I really think there is a problem. Unless she wanted to wait until she wanted to get married. You should talk to her about it. Don't force it but try to make her comfortable, plan something romantic.

    I don't know what else I would do if I were in your situation. I would just ask myself if I really love her and if I can wait longer or not.

    I think your feelings are totally normal. I too would question everything after three years of having a relationship with someone and never had anything happen.

    I hope things will work out for both of you.

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  • Inspector019
    12 years ago

    You have to figure out what is more important to you. Sex now, or your GF? It sounds like you have already chosen, so you should do her a favor and move on since you have other priorities.

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  • princess23
    12 years ago

    if u really love her u should wait for her , it seems like u both love each other and u should sit down and talk to her and ask her the reason why she is still not ready she is probably scared , i dont think u should break up with her over that, ithink u should take ur time, and go slow , usually you have to make your girlfriend comfortable specially if its the first time , they gotta gain your trust.. i really hope things will work out ,

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  • zenji
    12 years ago

    Sex is a good, normal thing. I think she's crazy and doesn't deserve you. Be platonic friends with her and find someone who isn't childish about sex and love.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Talk to her?

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  • giggity
    12 years ago

    wow no sex that sucks but it takes time don't worry it'll come

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    How old is she? 3 years and no sex? Smh.

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