I want to be tied up.

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Okay - im eighteen years old. I'll be nineteen in May. I have been with this guy for 3 years in February.

My first issue/question/problem is that we almost never have sex. He just never tries, and i don't either. We did a lot when we first started dating.. but it's been 2 months. I thought maybe it was my weight, but I'm 5'7 and i weigh 127 lbs. i go to the gym twice a week. Also my cup size is a 34 D. And guys like boobs do they not?
So whats the deal? He kisses me. Is he not attracted to me?

My second issue is: i desperately want to be tied up. I can think of nothing that would turn me on more than a guy tying me up, and f**king me until i cry. I know.. a bit graphic.. but truthful. I want to be taken control of. : Is this normal? Am i normal?

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  • infinity526
    14 years ago

    i want my gf to want to be bonded and fucked until she cries!

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  • Jweezy
    14 years ago

    Perfectly normal. Ur dudes the one whos abnormal. I wish my girl wanted me to tie her down and fuck her till she cried.

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  • StaleZ
    12 years ago

    What you could do is organise him to come over but what you do leave the door unlocked and perform self bondage. Leave a note for your guy saying your all his and see where it goes from there if he unties you straight away you should talk to him.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    It seems you are both just not made for each other in the sexually way, you should discuss it with him, love is about giving more than you think you can give to pleasure the other without boundaries. He may just come around if it is love, if not move on, to another that can fulfill your desires, there are many out there!

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  • askmesomething
    13 years ago

    well you're perfect for the controlling guy who wants to tie you up and fuck you until you cry. But be prepared for the same sick guy to want more than you bargained for. And you will be defenseless. But for all I know, maybe you'll like it. JUST DON'T LET HIM KILL YOU.

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  • moretea
    13 years ago

    Oh crikey, you sound like every guy's dream! If you're in the UK, I'll be glad to assist! However...

    Failing that (like it'd ever happen!), I agree with Batinit - in all relationships, communication is the key. Most guys, including myself in the past, can be very insecure about mentioning our own fantasies, and most girls are the same. Its human nature, especially when you're young (I'm note that old BTW!).

    Only a couple of my own girlfriends openly admitted to me they wanted me to tie them up, I'm sure most of my other girlfriends would have liked it too, only I was too shy to ask them if I could tie them up - a girl tied up is a real turn on, the way she's forced to move/wriggle makes her arse and boobs move a lot more erotically! And if she's gagged, when you're having sex, its like music... well, sounds and looks sexy if done properly (surgical micro-foam tape the best)... ;)

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  • Batinit
    14 years ago

    Yeah, that's fairly normal. Maybe show him a website about it or something. Communicate that you want to fuck him, and that you'd like to do some things outside the box. Most adult stores have beginner bondage kits, if you want to start small. He'd be crazy not to want to tie you to the bed and fuck you, though.

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