I want thoughts from you

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Hi Is it Normal to stay in our 'relationship'? my story is like this.. I have a high ranking professor. I met her in our class last 2010. It was only once when I became her student.. its now 2014.. and I never stop connecting with her.. I talk to her once every month since 2010.. she's my favorite and i already told her so.. I never forget her in every occasion. she always replying to me whenever I messaged her. I wish she would love and care for me as her daughter. she doesn't have her own family too so I'm hoping that she will consider me as her daughter. The problem is that.. she makes herself busy on work and she will only cares for me or messaged me when I only make a move. I'm sad when I'm thinking this.. but whenever i think that she responds to me great before.. I choose to stay again and be attached with her. She is 49yrs old now.. I just want thoughts from others.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    What is so wrong with your mother that you feel the need to have this woman be your mother. At 17, you should be moving towards independence from your parents, so again, why do you need another mother?
    "I wish she would love and care for me as her daughter. she doesn't have her own family too so I'm hoping that she will consider me as her daughter." This sounds just plain sick, in a clinical sense, to me.

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    • LittleMadame
      10 years ago

      Hi:) There's no wrong with my mom and our relationship actually, that is just how much I adore this professor. I have this thinking to prove to her that someday in the future when she gets old... I'll still be here for her. I'm also hoping that she likes what I'm doing, its because she used to respond to me.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      The sailor makes a good point.

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  • Mister_Nobody
    10 years ago

    It's quite normal for bonds to form between students and professors, but I think you are taking this a bit further than she felt comfortable with. If you don't ruin this, I'm sure you could stick with being friends.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    You need a break from what you are doing. Get involved with others. It's nice to have friends, but this relationship should not pull you down to not thinking about people your own age. You need to expand your relationships. Good luck.

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  • Crusades
    10 years ago

    Is your name Annabelle? lmfao!

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