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It's in the title, I want to be a virgin again. I'm sure it's a normal feeling since I hated the moment I lost my virginity, but does anyone else feel a regret when they look back at the moment they lost it (I'm sure you feel no regret if it was a happy moment)
I'm aware you can't change the past but this issue really bugs me
whats done is done, think of it this way your not a virgin but your not a whore either
I lost it to a prostitute . Still no regrets. But it was fun pounding her hard yeahh!!!!!
Omg, totally normal. I feel the same way. It's not that I regretted losing is over all, as it could have been much worse. It's just that my boyfriend is a virgin, and he was so hurt that I wasn't. I would have given anything at that moment to have it back
well i am tottally on ur side i never in my life regreted the day i lost mine up untill almost 6 months ago i started dating this amazing guy he really is something else understand caring patient and kind and we are in love but the one thing that bothers me is i cant offere myself to him and it mean something more then confesing how we feel id give anything to go back in time so i can do it over and save myself for this one perfect guy i have even resorted to asking for annul sex because it has never been touched (he wont though thinks is degrating ) but the one thing i have learned u need to just relize wat is done is done there is nothing we can do now besides not have sex anymore we cant turn back time and we cant change the past one of my fav saying is if u dont like something change it if u cant change it then change ur attuide:)
hope i was of help
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I dumped my first real girlfriend, as she cheated on me one day when she was drunk and lost her virginity to one of her so-called friends.
ladies should allow a dude who knows what he is doing to take the cherry or you will regret it.
men in reality want their women virgins. they just "wth" it at the end, and swallow the fact that other men can "see" her named.
also risarai, your guy won't do your ass? weird.
Yeah I myself am straightedge(duh) I have met that special girl and we have lost are virginities to each other and neither one of us regrets us not being virgins. I don't know what else to tell you.
I regret losing my virginity even though I was in love and so was he and we were both virgins. I hated myself for giving it away even though we waited. Things couldn't have been more perfect and I was still depressed over losing my virginity. I wish that I could have kept it forever. So I have to say yes it is normal to want your virginity back. (I was 19 when I lost my virginity)
By the power of me, I cleanse you. You're now a virgin! *sprinkles water over you*
You have to live with it. Kinda feel like saying it's your fault you lost it to someone who didn't mean anything to you. It's life and it suck, sorry.
Lol, reading this made me so happy. I love being a straight edge, no regrets whatsoever. I'm in college and still a virgin, so I can't relate. I can actually keep my pants on, and save my virginity for that one special girl. Sucks to be you, I guess, worse to be your bf, because he knows all he gets is sloppy seconds. :3
I think you just went off your springs there, Offsprings.
And even though it's ridiculous to call a woman "sloppy seconds" just because she did something almost EVERYBODY has done (except you...and judging from your attitude, I don't think you're gonna have any problem remaining a virgin)...
But all that aside....what's wrong with sloppy seconds? LMAO
I'll take experience over a virgin any day.
Like with anything else, if the first time sucks, just keep going it until you get it right.
Did you choose to give it up? Since if you did that is your fault so deal with it.
I was 17 and I never had a boyfriend so one year I wanted to b someone different and I pushed myself to do things I would never do. I was very shy, good girl, and very fragile. I consider myself to b a good girl in a bad environment. So when the first cute guy ever wanted to b with me I jumped at the idea. We hung out and the first day I did nothing but talk to him. But when I went home I was sad 'cuz I didn't do anything with him and I felt like such a loser. I was tired of being a "good girl". So I kissed him and one day he asked for oral and I gave it to him. I even showed him a sneak peak of my private and he licked it. We never had vagina or anal sex tho, that is one thing I knew for a fact I didn't want to do. I wanted to save that for marriage, marriage and religion was the reason I was waiting to began with. I broke up with him very quickly (less then a month) and went into a year of depression and beating myself up. I didn't even call myself a virgin anymore. I didn't feel like I was worthy. 2 years later and I don't give a F. I am who I say I am and other then that one guy in that short amount of time I have never been with another guy. The next guy I am with is going to wait until marriage if he wants me to do ANYTHING with him. I'm so strict that I am not even going to kiss him. I still have never been on my first date and there is so much stuff I have not done with a guy that I can't believe I even beat myself up for that. My advice to u is u r who YOU think u r and the guy who loves u won't even care about that. He will just b happy he has you and enjoy every moment of whatever u still have left to offer him. everyone makes mistakes. The important thing is to learn from your mistake and come to the conclusion that everything happens for a reason.
The very first time I had sex, I did regret it alot.
I didn't want to do it, espesially not with him, expecially not at that age.
But I don't think I'd want to take that back, because it hurt like hell and I don't really want to relive that.
me and my bf did it when on a school trip studing in my room.I stripped and started making ot with him.He didnt expect that or what happened next.I locked the door and took of his pants.I held his warm cock an stuck it in my pussy.I said push it in and out.He did and we were moaning and i was yellin harder.I felt great like his dick was in my stomach.I kept having him go harder.He was so deep.Then after almost 2 hours i could feel his cock swell.It was pushing aginst my pussy so hard.I was moaning even louder then his cum shot inside me .Thats when we both lost our virginity at 16.The teachers let us hang out in a room together because were both A students and we were studing.Now we do it at least 3 times a day.
looooooooooool.....sorry the comment about offering her anus instead bause it hasnt been touvhed. Thats new
Anyways, youv lostit and now its time to move on
You cant return it.What happened it happened now just be with the one you love and who loves you back and stop thinking about virginity.
Looking back I truly wish I had waited til I got married, but nowadays it's just not going to happen. I do regret with who, but if it's in the past, all you can do is learn from it. Dont dwell on it. That won't accomplish anything.
no orgasms huh? You can't get your virginity back, but dont worry about it, it doesnt mean anything. My advice go find a real man, that know how to please a women and you will completely forget about this silly idea
it is normal for people who dwell on the past....don't fixate on the one insecurity you have..look towards the future where this will not matter.
I regret who I lost it to, but I wouldn't want to be a virgin all over again.
I feel the same way too.i lost it recently and it was so bad and he didnt understand at this moment what important it was to me so i regret every day.but if u always take a look at the past when u know u can change it,you'll never moved on
There does exist hymen repair surgery. Some women go through with it in cultures where virginity at marriage is important. Others do so as a special anniversary gift to their husbands.
Sure it's normal.
Here's something to ponder: is having regrets about having lost your virginity worse than having regrets because you haven't lost it yet?
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I plan to lose my V's soon. I have made him wait as although I am ready I think that as he is willing to wait for me, he will respect me more when I decide to make love to him. I understand that you want your virginity back if you weren't ready, with the wrong person or maybe just at the wrong place at the wrong time.