I want my life messed up

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I have a very poor relationship with my mother and we just do not get on no matter how hard I try, so I want to mess up my life real bad so I can blaime it on her. I know it sounds dumb and selfish and what not, but I don't see what else to do with myself. Do I need some sort of councelling or do these feelings dissapear as I get older (current age 18)

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  • boohilubchu
    13 years ago

    ^ agreed !

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  • Jason1980
    13 years ago

    I think you definitely need some counseling. Try suggesting to your mom that both of you get joint counseling. If she's not up for it, then just go on your own. You might be surprised how much it could help you. If you haven't already tried it, you might want to write down your feelings about your mom in a letter. Try not to point the finger of blame too much though. Just describe how you feel and that you'd like your relationship with her to improve. You're very young, and your thoughts and feelings can change a lot with age, but don't intentionally mess up your life. That'll only hurt you and your mom. Good luck.

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  • roggerrogger6
    13 years ago

    Əlbəttə, bu təmiz nonsense edir. Menyu açıq və hətta əgər kimsə, mənə olsun dil deyir olunur.

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  • minaloca
    13 years ago

    Well, how old are you? i guess your're adult already so you're responsible for your decisions. that's just an excuse to do things you know are not good for your life. you just want to silence your conscious blaming ur mom. excuses excuses excuses.

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    • froggyree
      13 years ago

      I was going to go and write some philosophical type shit but you said it all.

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      • minaloca
        13 years ago

        right? that's what it is.

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  • LAW13
    13 years ago

    Counseling. And maturity.

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  • Thunder1187
    13 years ago

    Mothers are the ones who brought us into this world. when you were younger she took care of you,when you cried she was there for you. Maybe the is an emotional bearer between you and her and all you need to do is sit down and say "Mom we need to talk heart to heart" let her know how you feel and why you feel that way. then let her talk with out interruption no matter what and end it on a positive note and that my friend will be the first step towards maturity.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    WTF is wrong with you.

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  • matykane
    13 years ago

    Get real fuckin rich and then give her Jack shit!! That is what I would do. But I'm good with my mum.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    maybe you and your mom should both go to counseling?

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  • gogoduece
    13 years ago

    Don't mess up your own life to blame it on your mom... That's just stupid... If you really want to get your mom mad then be extra nice to her. Believe it or not it works

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