I want my boyfriend to spank me

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I want my boyfriend to spank me when I feel I am slipping up. For a while I disquised it as a fetish and that sorta worked, then I became more outgoing and we set up what we called the "project" where he would spank me for amounts of points. These spankings were very short and not very hard. What I want= firm, hard spankings that last a few minutes, over the knee. A few times he used a hairbrush and his belt and that got the message across. How do I make him see that I really want to be spanked to keep myself on track? Is it possible to relay this without talking about it and embarrassing myself? Does anyone else have a relationship like this? How did it start? Does it work for you now? Thanks

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  • switch
    14 years ago

    Just come out and ask him for what you want. He has already spanked you, so what is the big deal with asking for more? If he doesn't want to spank you, then come see me!

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  • chefassassin
    13 years ago

    This is normal for a Sub(missive). If your boyfriend is comfortable being your Dom thats great. SMBD is normal for a great many people, be safe and have fun. Vanilla gets boring after a while.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I would come out and tell him. I am sure if you aren't telling him this there are other things you want him to do that you aren't telling him. An open sexual relationship is one of the most beautiful things in the world, if two partners are 100% open sexually and strive to please eachother it can be such an amazing thing. I am only 15 but my current bf fought me this. I hope either way you get a good firm spanking from your boyfriend and it at least makes your eyes water. Have fun xoxo :)

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  • amber_angel
    7 years ago

    While my boyfriend does not "punish" me except part of role play, it is very common for a girl to want to be in a domestic discipline relationship.

    There are literally thousands of great articles on how to let your partner know that you need a spanking/discipline regiment.

    Just google how to tell my partner I need domestic discipline.

    Find one you like that you think will be persuasive to him and print out a couple for him to read.

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  • [email protected]
    8 years ago

    I love spanking my girl too and she just loves it and always has

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  • ashfordite
    12 years ago

    This may seem mercenary but im sure there is something he'd like from you. Maybe ask him if he'd like to receive 30 minutes of oral attention in exchange for 30 minutes of HARD spanking. Maybe take the bare bottom spanking first so that he's a bit worked up by the time you begin sucking and licking, if you're not sobbing too much ; )

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  • PeterJameson
    12 years ago

    why not talk about it? it is normal to be able to talk about it!

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  • underwhere
    13 years ago

    You might check out this web site, and suggest your boyfriend read it also. http://www.spankingneeds.com

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