I want my bf to do something horrible so i can leave cuz i'm bored

I have a perfect boyfriend (on paper) rich, sexy and European. He takes care of me, even financially.But sometimes I wish he would do something very horrible and violent to me so I can leave him. Then I wouldn't be the bad guy. I want to leave him because I am bored and I want to go wild and crazy and maybe move to the bayou and drink whiskey and learn to play an instrument, and also learn to shoot guns. You are probably wondering why I don't just leave. What kind of Psycho walks away from the perfect man????? Also I can't stay with him and do these things, I want to be truly free. I wish he would go ahead and bash my face in already so I can leave and never come back!! Is this normal???

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Based on 74 votes (29 yes)
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  • Minaj

    All goes to show, us women are never satisfied -_-

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  • simba1

    Just another thought... If he wasnt european, didnt have good body, and didnt provide you with everything, would you still be there? If the answer to this is no, then you dont love him. My husband could be overweight or as skinny as a buck rat, be rich or a pauper, be ggod looking(which he is), or ugly, and I would still love him. Its whats on the inside that counts

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  • yargyarg

    I wouldn't say it's not normal, when it must be at least statistically normal, and I say this because I'm aware of at least one instance of this from personal experience.

    I had a girlfriend who used to submit me to all sorts of tests, hoping I'd fail, as it later turned out. Once, she pretended to get drunk and went to bed, leaving me alone with her hot girlfriend who took off all her clothes and attempted to seduce me. I declined. I was surprised to discover later that my girlfriend was aware of what had happened. I'm sure she would have been just as aware if the outcome had been different. It had been a setup!

    This was just the beginning. After a few such tests, and it became clear to her that I was not going to slip or fail, she began to slip and fail herself, giving me the option to fail another way -- by not forgiving her. Her indiscretions became more and more blatant until we could no longer even "just be friends". I wish her well. Sort of.

    You should develop some courage. Be candid with your boyfriend. If you feel you must live out this dream of yours of being a razor-totin', tabacky-spitting', moonshine-swillin' bayou bimbo, bring some honor to that calling by being honest with your boyfriend. He sounds decent, and I think he deserves to hear from you that you're not who he thinks you are.
    Decency and honesty are two qualities we need more of in this poor world. Don't worry if it's normal. Just do the right thing.

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  • simba1

    Be fair to both of you. Dump him. you are obviously unhappy and using him, and he is living in a world of fake happiness. Would you still be there if he had no money? I beilieve that is what they call a gold digger

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    What's with girls always being bored?
    Shit man it's like some day I will have to rob a bank, sell cocaine, drive 150 km/h in the middle of a crowded town, shoot someone etc before I'll interest a girl. :-(

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  • xXScYtHeXx

    You're fucking insane, you don't want him to bash your face in.

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  • losted18

    Chet on him
    And he will leave

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  • Icare310

    Have you talked to him about wanting to add some excitement to your life, maybe he would like to do the same and you could experience it together.

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  • zii

    I can relate. I too have a perfect boyfriend, but he's boring. So I guess he's not perfect. I am just sitting back, waiting for my wild urges to go away with age. Then marry his ass before he leaves me. I've already been wild almost my whole life. If you havent had your wild times yet, I say dump his ass and go have some fun.

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  • inuyasha0489

    ummmmmmmmmmmm why would u go for hitting why wouldnt u wish eh cheated on u then

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  • ct2355

    What your seeking is adventure and excitment, you want a big change in your life and want to go places and try new things. That normal a human to want a change from all things routine, but you really should just end it instead of leading this guy on. Well if your not happy that is, or you feel that your other half is in some way holding you back from your dreams. If this guy is as good a person as you say the he will never raise a hand to you or cheat, so either let this guy go or try doing all the things you want to do with him by your side.

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