I want love, is because i fear i'll die before it happens.

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So get this, its takes us a lot to grasp the concept that we will die. And we are temporary creatures. Besides thinking "I am 19 and never been" as being abnormal, I think about the advice of "waiting for that special person". I compare it to the advice "live for the day". I am afraid if tomorrow isn't a promise, i would die before i get to experience love.
Is it normal?

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Based on 37 votes (31 yes)
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  • x6tence
    14 years ago

    yea that happens when u overthink things i know that when that happens to me tho im like tryin to slow things down makin it more realistic to me so it seems like a huge distance or fantasy

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I am scared of dying every day but i am only scared of a painful death or one where loads of people die with me, but i am fine with a hospital death, its strange

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  • Alaxett
    14 years ago

    I understand that, tho I think that's just silly. Have you heard of Erik von Markovik, best known as Mystery? You may want to study him, he's just a tip of the iceburg about how to get a girl...

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    Nah, it doesn't take a lot to grasp the idea that we will die. We're not a lot anyway. I don't know if I will get to live and love properly either. I'm just silly though. I may be all my own fault.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    If what you are saying is you don't have a girlfriend & you are lonely then that won't change navel gazing about mortality.

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  • jantzen2323
    14 years ago

    i feel very similar life scares me i hate to think about dying but its always on my mind,i feel like im the scardest person in the world but aparently not.but i think that when you get older you get more comfortable with the thought of death it seems crazy but thats what my mom has told me hah comfortable with the thought of dying its scary to everyone i know but sometimes i find my self so caught up in the thought ill start to cry

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  • jsfdnljn
    14 years ago

    i think that fear is a good thing up to a point, though too much fear breeds either anger or despair. we can use fear as a sort of motivation forwards.

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  • moomoomilkchan
    14 years ago

    I'm afraid I'll live till I'm the ripe old age of 80 or something and I'll always be in some kind of one-sided love

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  • littleloulou
    14 years ago

    I am paranoid about dying every day. I know exactly where you are coming from.

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