I want him, but i don't?

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I was in a relationship with someone for just under a year, and the entire time I had a male bestfriend who I spent a lot of time with, we flirted but nothing ever happened. I adore this guy, find him attractive and we get along so well! But after I broke up with my boyfriend, my bestfriend & I tried to be together. We kissed a lot one night watching movies, and after he left I knew we weren't meant to be together. We both agreed to stay friends, but I keep wanting to kiss him again! So frustrating. Opinions?

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  • kimi
    11 years ago

    I am going thru the same thing

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  • biancaalisoun
    12 years ago

    Yeah thanks, I'm happy to wait before going into another relationship.

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    very interesting. Ambivalent weirdo!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    i think cc may be right... you may be simply desiring physical comfort after breaking up with your other boyfriend.

    take my advice ... DO NOT go from one boyfriend to another right away. Take at least a month to yourself to get to know yourself again.

    And you'll be less likely to have rebound-relationships that just don't work.

    If you go from man to man to man with only a few days to yourself, who are you really?... who are you without a boyfriend?

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  • visualkeirockstar
    12 years ago

    And what was u wanted to ask? Lol

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you were on the rebound. That tends to be a subconciouse thing. I can see why your confized, but if you desired him that way, but knew you werent meant to be together. Well. Rebound. Nuff said

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  • biancaalisoun
    12 years ago

    He moved on. Got a girlfriend & were staying friends. He flirts with me a lot which shows he isn't very good boyfriend material so I'm glad we didn't. Of he can do it to her, no doubt he'd do it to me!

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    Give him a week? Maybe date him for a week and see how things go.

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