I want an abortion because my boyfriend broke a whisky decanter

Okay. I want to get an abortion because my boyfriend broke a whisky decanter.

I am housesitting a really nice house. He came over two fridays ago. That's when I told him about being pregnant. He started drinking and basically hasn't left the house since (except to go to work). I should have told him to leave, but I didn't. I should have told him to stop drinking, but I didn't. I figured he was just trying to cope.

Then, one night, I went to bed (because being pregnant makes you tired). He stayed up (which I thought to be kind of outrageous since it's not his house, but I didn't say anything). I heard him go into the dining room and pour himself a whisky from the crystal decanter. I never gave him permission to do that. He wasn't even supposed to be in the house. I heard a big crashing noise. He came to bed reeking of booze.

I was angry about him being such a frigging alcoholic. The next day I asked him to give me some space and not come over that night.

The next morning, I felt good that I had had a night alone! Then I noticed the chip in the whisky decanter. I went mental.

I asked him whether he did it. HE SAID NO.

Today (two days after) I finally confronted him and told him I knew it was him because I heard the crash. He said sorry. He half-heartedly tried to help me find a solution.

Meanwhile I have emailed pictures to a crystal glass expert who says it might be a rare, old one-off and I cannot get a replacement. It's probably a wedding gift or an heirloom.

The people who own this house trust me. They put their faith in me. I have totally destroyed that by letting this idiot into their house.

I don't want to know him. I don't want to touch him. I don't want to kiss him, and I want an abortion.

AM I NORMAL?????

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Based on 95 votes (31 yes)
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Comments ( 25 )
  • howaminotmyself

    The broken decanter is a trigger, not the reason. What is the real reason you want to end the life inside you?

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  • justsomgirl

    It's a thing. People are more important than things. And yet you're willing to trade your baby away because of a thing? Don't mean to be harsh....but you are too immature to be a mother.

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    • krystallite

      justsomegirl, um by saying to not get an abortion and then saying she is too immature to be a mother is somewhat contradicting. But dont get an abortion, there is someone else who will care for him or her if you cant.

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  • Jweezee

    Is it too late to abort yourself?

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  • randomjelly

    What a fucking idiot. I've seen tons of stupid people on here and have never once gotten angry but I would seriously love to break your face. I hope...I seriously hope you give up this child for adoption and it's not raised by a fucking idiot such as yourself.

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  • dappled

    I can't tell whether you're trolling or not. If not, you seem to overreact to absolutely everything. Many things are outrageous but staying up late in someone else's house is not one of those things. And having an abortion because your boyfriend chipped a piece of glass? I understand you are upset, but seriously, get a grip!

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  • Uzzie101

    justsomgirl is right. An abortion is a little extreme. The guy (although seemingly a douchebag) obviously cares, if he refused to leave. He'll need help to get off drink, yes, but that doesn't mean you should just abort the baby. Unless you have an alternative reason, an abortion wouldn't be right here.

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  • Karpfen

    You are a coward, your boyfriend breaking something is just a excuse. You make me sick, its a human being growing in you, if u do it you are a murderer, plain and simple u are NOT normal

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  • omglookitsagoat

    it's your decision, but there are better reasons to have an abortion than just because your boyfriend broke a glass bottle.

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  • MercedesBenz

    Pregnancy hormones.

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  • jessica675

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  • redberrylemon

    Did you mean to get pregnant?

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  • uwotm69

    You want to kill your baby because your boyfriends an asshole?

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  • Avant-Garde

    You've got to be kidding me...
    It's normal to be upset, but to want a abortion over something like that?! I'm pro-choice, but that is a idiotic reason for wanting a abortion. Are trying to get revenge on him or are you fearful that the child will be stupid? Ever heard of a little something called, Adoption?

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  • 13Swiftyfan13

    NO hunny, I am begging you. Please dont get an abortion. Please</3 that innocent, defenseless baby shouldn't be aborted because of something his/her father did. Just get custody of the child.

    Think of how much happiness this baby will bring you.

    Not to mention that most women that get abortions suffer from depression, regret, and suicidal thoughts. Its just your hormones honey.

    Please dont get an abortion</3 please..

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    • 13Swiftyfan13

      And uhm. Getting an abortion doesnt mean your not a mother. It just makes you the mother of a DEAD baby, that had the chance to live and be loved.

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  • Britton

    I think you should abort your own life...just sayin...

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  • burrrr

    if you want it keep it if you dont dont up to you dont listen to other ppl its your life

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  • justsomgirl

    Kristal, I didn't say not to get an abortion, nor did I say she should. I was stating my opinion on her mentality and in life in general.

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  • petawawacouple69

    This guy didn't just start acting like this out of the blue, your the idiot that got knocked up by a loser in life. The abortion is totally up to you, you just finally realized this guy is a plug. It's your fault for this mess. Next time you'll think about who you are gonna get impregnated by. It's normal you don't want to have a kid with this loser bf. It's not normal you let him knock you up when he's not a suitable father/role model/human being.

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  • 8Serene8

    Do it!

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  • Bananas0053

    Okay first of all tell the guy to get a friggin grip or leave and second of all YOU GET A GRIP!! my 12 year old sister saw this and said to me that you are just to friggin scared!!! Dont get a abortion its just lazy the least you could do is put it up for adoption!!

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  • AnonyFox

    Just get drunk with him...

    You're a whiny bitch.

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    • Violet_Heart

      lol while snooping around your page i found it funny to see this xD just a confession...

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  • c90

    Obviously neither of you are mature enough for a child and with the world's population being over 6 billion I say you should abort it.

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