I want a virgin i love,

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Is it normal that i want to only date a girl who is a virgin and is willing to wait till after marriage for sex, i mean the thought that some other guy had sex with her would make me so discusted,its a big turn off, and i want to actually love the girl i sleep with,not gonna sleep with some girl i dont really like,it seems like a wast ,and i really wanna loose my virginity to a virgin who im in love with and who loves me, though i fear that once i get that far ill become a big pervert cuz im willing to do almost anything and want to and im also afraid that all i want is sex which i dont think i true, im also afrid that ill screw up cus ive never dated or even kissed, im a 20 year old guy

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    It should only be about Love, not judgment.

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  • YBNormal
    13 years ago

    I've known many people, both male and female, who wanted not only to wait until they were married to have sex the first time, but to find a partner with the same values. Generally, religion has been an important part of the lives of these people. You don't say anything that suggests that in your post, but if it is, have you considered looking in your church for a partner?

    I don't see anything wrong with your desire at all, and I wish you the best in finding a lifetime partner that has only shared herself with you, and you with her. It our modern world, this relationship is becoming increasingly harder to obtain, but that doesn't mean it's not worth having.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      thank you

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    No, I you are the one missing the point, especially if you can't understand that what you wrote is condescending towards women. You are the one that needs to adjust your perspective - not everyone else.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      that was not my intention
      and ty Bling24 (45771)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I can understand wanting to lose your virginity to someone else who is also a virgin, so that you don't embarrass yourself when it's your first time.

    However, when you write shit like "the thought that some other guy had sex with her would make me so discusted,its a big turn off," that's when you come across as a big chauvinist.

    There is absolutely NOTHING disgusting about a woman that is secure in her sexuality and has had sex with other men! Men and women are equal human beings pal, and you calling a woman disgusting because she's had sex, is downright vulgar.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Discusted? Lol!

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    You want that because you are sexist or a coward, if you weren't, it wouldn't be an issue for you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      im not a sexist or a coward , i dont understand y i would be a sexist? coward i posibley understand y u think that though its not true. i think u missed the point of my story

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    yeah u misssed the point to. its the same 4 guys to, im baisically saying i only want to have sex with one girl. either i worded this thing wrong or every one here's up there own ass. and its not about sexism or superiority or embarrassment at all,

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  • Bling24
    13 years ago

    His perspective is fine, everyone has a right to their own opinion and just because you don't agree doesn't mean you need to badmouth him. I'm with the author on this one, he's not looking for an opinion, just an answer to the question. Anyway, yea I think when you're a virgin it's normal to feel that way because you haven't experienced sex. Your view may change once you've tried it though.

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