I want a girlfriend so bad

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Now I'm a bit of loner and it's hard for me to make friends even with the same gender. As I'm getting older I realize I'm running out of time to form relationships. But I find it very hard talking to girls. Because I feel so ugly, stupid, and worthless, I end up having feelings for any girl that tries talking to me or showing interest in me. And not just girls my age and younger but also older women especially in positions of authority. For example, I know a reasonably attractive 43 year old woman who is the director of career services at my college. She likes wearing real sexy clothes, and I can imagine how smoking beautiful she must have been 20 years ago (even though she's still hot today). Anyway I'm going to get a job soon but I've never held a girl's hand, or really talked to a girl about my feelings, or been kissed on the cheek by a girl, or shared ice cream with a girl. Or anything like that. Of course I want to have sex but I value lots of other things just as much as sex, for instance playing video games with her, reading a good book with her, and cuddling and touching and flirting. I feel like I've missed out on so much sometimes I just wanna cry, knowing I probably will never get to experience these things because I'm shy, awkward, ugly, and poor

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  • linchpin
    10 years ago

    me too buddy me too

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    Dude, you can't expect a girl to like you when you don't even like yourself first!

    How can someone ever be expected to love you if you can't love yourself first?

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  • Potnudles
    10 years ago

    Girls like guys who are confidant in themselves, it doesn't matter how you look, it's how you act. You need to show them you have balls. I know guys who are not good looking but get with loads of girls because they don't care. Once you push your comfort zone and get out of your shell, you'll make friends and get girls.

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    • Jayy
      10 years ago

      This

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  • VisitorQ
    10 years ago

    Are you Spanish mi amore? And do you have muscles. Give me your phone number. Im from Queens, NY. And have lots of men. And they always come back for more! Im so lovable and cute!

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I know that this is the notorious butt slut.

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  • kawaiigurl
    10 years ago

    idk who or what dug into your head deep enough to make you believe romantic relationships and friendships are sooo vital to obtain. look how much pressure you're putting on yourself for the sake of other people to accept you. it's never gonna work if you don't like yourself first. you need to work on a relationship with yourself first and once you radiate a little self confidence people will gravitate towards you. stressing out and putting a timer on forming relationships with people is unnecessary

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    Make female friends. Forget sexual attraction. Take away the possibility of dating or hooking up with a chick. Look for friends....not mates. It will take the pressure off tremendously. Once you learn how to act without coming off desperate....then you can worry about dating.

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  • Potnudles
    10 years ago

    I used to be a really shy kid with a stutter but by the time I was 16 I became comfortable with who I was and now my while life has changed, you just need to stretch your comfort zone

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  • AvrilLavigne
    10 years ago

    How can you get a girlfriend if you can't get any friends?

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  • Imsupernormal
    10 years ago

    I feel the exact same way. It's normal unfortunately. :'(

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I know where you're coming from, but honestly you can't think of yourself so negatively. You probably do have a lot to offer someone, don't be so bummed out just because no girl has seen that in you yet. I'm not going to say that things like a girlfriend just fall into place, but I will say that thinking of yourself so badly isn't going to help. Like I said, you probably are a great guy, you have to see that first in yourself before you can expect somebody else to.

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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago

    Stop insulting yourself. You have more to offer than you give yourself credit. Change the way you think of yourself and you'll be happier, and those things you want will fall into place.

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  • VisitorQ
    10 years ago

    My Butt hurts!

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  • Buttslut
    10 years ago

    No your not, Im sure your just fine honey.

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