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Every girl wants a baby but i want one now! I want to finish my education first-im not even in college. i don't understand why i want a baby so bad. is this normal?
Maybe you want something to love you unconditionally.
Something to hold and not worry whether it's going to reject you.
You think you want one NOW... but what you really probably want is to be young when your kid is older... What I am saying... U want to be 40 when he/she is 18, rather than being 55 and not enjoying eachothers company in the way you could if you were younger. Either that or you just have that motherly quality in you that just wants to have someone to look up to you in that way. But wait awhile unless you have a guy with the same mindset.
i feel like that too.
sometimes i daydream about having a baby.
none of my other friends have ever said anything about wanting to have a baby, but i really really want one. i know that i need to finish my education and get everything together, i mean i'm only 16, but sometimes i just wish that i could have a baby right NOW.
Oh my GOD- a baby will CRUSH you FLAT! Get a little puppy dog instead. Having a baby is like buying a house, ok?...you'll be paying it off for the rest of your life. It's like buying 10 Mercedes convertibles, DO YOU UNDERSTAND THIS??!?? DO YOU??!?? Probably not...enjoy the abrupt end of your youth and innocence... :)
Wait until you're older and more prepared. A child is a lifelong responsibility. You might even change your mind on the matter.
Not everyone wants a baby. In fact, many people don't like kids.
Just remember it only takes a minute to make a baby, but probably 20 years to raise it.
gyahh. be careful what you wish for!!
babies are cute & sweet up until there about 2.
then they start running around the house & tearing your nerves up. I'm actually scared of having kids b/c i have really bad nerves & i might have a panic attack. i can barely babysit my sister without ripping my hair out.
do some babysitting & see if its really what you want.
you will probly change your mind in a few months so dont start deciding now.
I feel the same way too! what makes it worse is my bf wants one too! a little girl... you have to remember in the olden days, ppl were married at 12. Just resist until you have your life put together, so then your children can have a chance
It is natural to want a baby. If not, our species would cease to exist. But it comes with great responsibility. It is a new life in your hands. You should wait until you are ready. If you desire sex, that is natural too, but get educated. Go to a heath professional or planned parenthood and get the facts.
OMG I think you need to look at your life and see what your missing. Was your parents there for you? That may be the cause of those feelings...feeling like your alone with no one to love you.
I want to have a baby as well. I feel like it'll actually give my life a purpose. But I really can't afford one or deal with one this stage in my life. Plus I'd need a guy I can trust, and I don't have one of those right now. It's rather unfortunate I CAN'T be a young mother in today's society, but hey. It's America, it is what it is.
Love and dependantcey.
You are seeking both evidently there is not enough love in your life and you want someone to love you unconditionally.
Plus the little one will be tottallty dependant on you.
Not talking negative...nut get some serious priessional help to help you with the pros and cons...who knows you may be ready!
There once was a man from Veunus
With a Rocket Ship for a penis.
Thank you for your time.
Normal but I bet soon enough you will take your mind to another direction I'd consider this a phase. Dont go making any mistakes now!
Now why the hell would you want one of those. They just scream and shout and shit their pants all fucking day. Do you really want to spend time cleaning up after them, feeding them, etc? It would be so much easier just to take care of yourself.
Okay, so when you have the baby and when it wakes up in the mddle of the night screaming and crying and all the money you put into him/her..then you realize what a big mistake it was!
If you do want one, just make sure you make the right choice and know when you're ready.
This feeling is normal. A baby will make your life much more exciting. You should have as many kids as you can, as quick as you can. The government will pay you for the rest of your life!!!