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Its since my collage time,I had a breakup.After that i cry almost everyday..sometimes i try to findout happiness in others..sometimes i shop,eat,have a hair cut to make me feel happy but at the end of the day i failed in my chase..Infact I tried to have sex to make me comfirtable,but in vain..I am not happy..why always there are tears in my eyes? Is it normal?
When it comes to breakups, I really look to my mom for strength. Her high school boyfriend proposed after they graduated, and she said no. She said she was too young and needed to experience the world before getting serious, so whenever I think my breakup is bad, I think back to that story. My mom said no to a guy who proposed to her! I can be strong enough to withstand a breakup.
I would suggest leaning on your friends for support and comfort, and also do activities to take your mind off of he/she. From my experience, moping and crying has very little constructive value. My condolences!
I am sorry if that advice is not tailored for you :/ I do not know much, other than you are sad...and after rereading, it sounds like you've tried activities and distractions and they haven't worked. But to answer your question, I think it is normal to feel sad after a breakup, but I am not sure if your constant sadness is normal. At least I have never experienced it.
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That was your honest openion..you should not be sorry for that mate.Yes i tried everything,talked with my friend too but what a co-inc,they dont have time for me as well.Now i have nobody in my life to share happiness or i can say to be happy expt this website.Thts why i am sad..I saw people laughing and i start sobings buy donot allow tears to come out.Yes i stand hard in front of people now.But yet not learn how to smile genuinely..Anyways Anthian..thakns for your reply..may be one day i will be happy.i hope so hahah
Shitty deal. Have you tried talking to your friends about it? Try and find the root cause of why you're crying, and see if you can do anything about it :-)