I walked out of my first (miserable) job. was this a normal reaction?

Is it correct to walk out on your job after telling your boss you're unhappy? In March 2013, I was miserable - I had a contracting job at a Homeland Security firm in D.C. The following issues contributed to my unhappiness:

*Upon beginning my job (the very first one I had), I received improper training unrelated to the job I had. When I asked questions due to this deficiency, I was written up

*I was reprimanded in front of colleagues/superior on multiple occasions. This misconduct is very demeaning and dehumanizing and something I routinely faced.

*Although I continued to perform my duties as assigned, I (the only African-American worker) noticed that SEVERAL of my colleagues kept receiving promotions over me. One of these colleagues - who began working after I did - would verbally reprimand and otherwise harass me at the job

My performance declined, mostly due to additional stress associated with family members I unwisely decided to live with. And I will admit: I was also wrong. I breached protocol and they decided to give me a warning but I could have been fired (which changed my earlier belief that my managers, etc. were racist - I understand now that they weren't racist, just negative people).

The result: I went to the boss and told him I was unhappy and that I no longer wished to work there. To avoid a termination, I wrote a resignation letter and walked.

What could I have done differently? Would you tell your boss you're unhappy (in no uncertain terms)? I would like to move on from this, but I feel I would have been right to sue them at one point.

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Comments ( 6 )
  • seekelp

    Talk to your boss about why you're unhappy with the conditions and see if anything changes. If that doesn't work, then go ahead and do the walking thing. That's the only think that I can think of.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls

    I was in the same situation far too many times. People are arseholes, what can you do. If you need the money, you have to suck it up or keep looking. Sucks but it's true and I'm white. It could be racism but it might not be.

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    • dbracey

      What would you have done in this circumstance?

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  • green_boogers

    Two week notice that specifies your last day of work in the resignation letter would have been more appropriate.

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    • dbracey

      I agree but it wasn't possible under the circumstances

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I don't really think that you did anything wrong and I don't see you as having "walked out", necessarily. Quitting a job because you are not fitting into it well and it is taking a toll on you which is continuing a cycle of deterioration of your work performance is a very mature and responsible thing to do.

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