I've never cum, is this normal?!

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Okay, so i've been with this guy for 3 years and he's not my only sex partner. I've never came. It feels so good i dont know why i dont. It upsets me so much that i cry cause i feel like its my fault. i dont like to masturbate. i dont think it feels good when i do it honestly. So I dont know what to do or anything. Help me please!!

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  • wiip100
    13 years ago

    http://www.writing.com/main/view_item/item_id/1690183-Helping-Nancy

    my sister found this, I can see comparisons to be made. maybe try and get a guy to do the same to you?

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    yes try different positions but if it doesnt happen then you can get an injection in your g spot area to raise it so it increases your chances of having an orgasm when you have sex. but its not unusual not to be able to, not many women can orgasm during sex. i think you should take matters in to your own hands if nothing else works.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Most women find it easier to orgasm when they can control the action. Maybe try the cowgirl or reverse cowgirl position and move your body according to what feels good. Similar for oral sex. While your partner can do some of the work, it's up to you to move too, and enjoy things.

    Good luck!

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