I've fallen in love with my teacher

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I've met her last year, by the moment i saw her i knew there was something about her, never payed much attention tough, but this year she's not my teacher and that made realize how much she is important to me and that made me crazy, can't stop thinking about her (it's not in a sexual way, we all have that hot teacher we have hot dreams with, but this is not the case it's different) and since she's not my teacher i try to see her at every break time we have, i'm always complimenting her everyday, i even bought her a present on her anniversary,and currently i made every thing possible to make her my orientator of my final year test so she's with me almost every wednesday, but the problem is that this started so fast because i tought i could never have feelings this way for anyone again, but it happened and she's my teacher with 44 and i'm 20, has atleast one kid that i'm aware of (wich isnt a problem since i have little sisters) probably married and she's not probably going to envolve with me at this point in her life and i'm thinking of buying her a rose or something on valentines day. Today i found a profile on dating site of her saying that was single and looking for men bettween 35 and 45, but it may not be true since the location didn't match, i think it's safe to say that she's may be more than aware of my crush by her after all the flirting i try with her, but i don't know i'm just trying to find opinions about this, because i'm getting depressed, and i'm always working to forget things and enjoyng my moments by the river or sometimes driving with no destination since i'm a lonely person, but i hope i can get some awnsers somehere this is my last year and running out of time.

If you read all of this thank you for your time.

Forget the whole thing! 17
Continue to pursue this impossible dream! 9
Force the whole thing by going all in once! 2
There is another way. 2
Continue to pursue this dream but taking a different aproach. 7
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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    Just give her the rose and calmly confess; however, let her know you don't expect anything out of this and respect her marriage. Let her know that you understand it's a silly crush and that it'll fade, but for this moment, you think she's really pretty and that you'll miss her as your teacher.

    Even though you can't date her, this will probably make her smile a lot, so it's worth it. Plus, this will help you grow as a person as you learn that rejection isn't as bad as everyone thinks. Rejection is apart of life, and though it had it's harsh side from immature people, it has it's mature bitter-sweet moments like this.

    I guess you can think of it as practice. Saying how you feel without expecting anything takes courage and bravery a lot of people don't have yet. Eventually, as you meet new people and make friends, you'll find another girl worth the risk of confessing to and you may have an easier time since you've done it before.

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  • yourdeepestshame
    8 years ago

    Google rophenol.

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    • foreverunknown06
      8 years ago

      Why would you do that

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  • JMarceloCP
    8 years ago

    Since i can't edit this i'm just gonna add that after vakentine's day we had a special day with balloons free hugs and stuff, i skipped the last class to go buy some flowers to my teacher i putted them in her car with a similiar card as the one i've putted in the other gift and of course she knew who did that.<br abp="601"><br abp="602">She send me a message that night saying "thanks i loved it but please have more sense na dno more suprises ok?"<br abp="603"> <br abp="604">At first i tough shit i blew it, but 2 days later when i passed by her and other teachers saying good morning and inclining your head and she did the same with that malicious smile "like you remember that right?"<br abp="605"><br abp="606">and i i started getting nervous, later that day we went to work on my final test and since she's my orientator we sit next by, and we talked all day with more stares and smiles, then my teacher was watching some posts on facebook and she turn her laptop around and showed me a picture of the bouquet of roses i gave her inside her car and she had posted that saying "and to end an marvelous day nothing better than a small gesture of someone who aparently really likes me ;) thank you secret admirer, loved the "<br abp="607"><br abp="608">and i was staring at her and the post i and said, no comment, and my teacher no comment indeed.<br abp="609"> <br abp="610">at the same hour she posted that she had changed her profile pic wiht somethig saying "you're amazing, remember that" and started posting things about love and stuff, but i don't know if that has something to do with me but now i'm starting to get nervous because she's accepting this too good and i'ts not rejecting my actions..

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    That should've read "off" her, not of ....

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    I couldn't be bothered reading this word wall, but if she's your english teacher I think you should get your mind of her and on to your lessons ....... well, even if she's not, but learning to write coherently and use paragraphs and punctuation would surely please her, not to mention us

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    • JMarceloCP
      8 years ago

      Thank you for your comment but no, she's not my english teacher, however my english teacher is a forty year old hot teacher you would really like tough

      PS:My native language is Portuguese (Portugal).

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    just stay away from her. even if shes been flirting with you she'll freak out if you keep contacting.

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