I've come to hate women.

30% Normal
17 Comments

Two years ago I got divorced. I stayed away from any meaningful relationships with women because I was a recovering alcoholic and that and a difficult 5 year marriage put enough on my plate. So I started dating a few weeks ago. Been on 3 dates so far. 3 different women. All disasters because of my short fuse. They'll make these sarcastic comments to me that make me think that I'm being made fun of. And the tone of voice sounds just like my ex. A stone cold bitch I haven't seen or heard in two years. The last one I dated I ended up smacking in the face when I dropped her off. I didn't realize what I'd done to her until her glasses flew off her face. Is it normal to come to hate women after a difficult marriage?

Voting Results
30% Normal
Based on 33 votes (10 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 17 )
  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sounds to me as if YOU are the problem, not the women you date.
    You would have to be one of the unluckiest guys on earth to date 3 women and have had a wife who bothered you in exactly the same way.
    Time for some introspection, rather than others for your problems, I do believe.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    3
    3
      -
    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      Amen to that!

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
    • skilful_soldier2
      8 years ago

      You bravely sail the seven basements with your blow up doll 42 years your junior

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • Steve2
        8 years ago

        The seven basements bravely sail your blow up doll with you, 42 years its junior.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • skilful_soldier
          8 years ago

          You pretend to be smart on the internet all day because you are a fat asshole with no friends.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          -1
          -1
  • GreenEyedDuelist
    8 years ago

    No. Not all women are bad. You're in a hole. You just have to dig yourself out.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    3
    3
  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Tine to get yourself back to AA and/or anger management therapy. You're lucky the woman you hit didn't have you charged with assault: I certainly would have

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      I would press charges for assault for sure. He'd be lucky if that's all I did.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    You're are an abusive cunt who needs to hang themselves in a crazy asylum.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • skilful_soldier2
      8 years ago

      You pretend to be smart on the internet all day because you are a fat asshole with no friends.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      -1
      -1
  • xfg13
    8 years ago

    Ha ha ha... I've gone way past that point... the women I date end up in my basement, tied up in a chair where they sit in their own piss and shit for months. I torture them on a daily basis until they finally die from infections, then the ones who are still alive get to watch me bury the body in the dirt floor in front of them.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Someday you'll hit the wrong one, and end up dead, but no one will miss you, because you're not a nice person!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Come on Rose. It seems like every time a guy posts about abusing a female you have to chime in with your usual rant. So what happened? Some guy gave you a well deserved smack or two? Get over it. I know from my own experience that the female is not always innocent. I've never raised my hand to a woman but there were times when I should have.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Stop being a smart-ass.

        I was raised that a man should NEVER hit a woman. No one has ever hit me, and it's a damp good thing, because believe he'd be sorry. Abusers are attracted to people who come from a background of abuse and neglect, and a lot victims are attracted to abusers. This shit is rooted deeply in family of origin issues, and until people get treatment they oftentimes tend to continue to reenact their early childhood traumas of abusing and being abused. It's not called the cycle of abuse for nothing.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        1
        1
  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    It is normal to be hurt and all that after a divorce. But you can't hate all women and judge all women before you get to know them because of a disaster with one. I've been cheated on twice and treated like absolute shit in one of my relationships but I am not going to sit there and hate all men and assume that they are going to be like that because of two failed relationships. That's just how shit goes there are shitty people out there no matter their gender.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    As a recovering alcoholic with 13 years sober, my advice to you is concentrate on not taking the first drink for now and avoid dating for awhile. Especially don't date women in recovery, because that's really the blind leading the blind. As they say in AA, 2 half cups don't make a full cup. That's also why they tell you no new relationships for at least a year after getting sober.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      Ah, the voice of reason!
      :-)

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0