I've cheated and i don't feel guilty

If you really cared how your girlfriend felt then you would feel guilty about doing this deed and think about how you would feel if she did the same to you. Are you really not telling her because she will freak or are you actually truly afraid of losing her because of what you did and hurting her feelings and then actually regretting what you did. Word of advise, if you plan on staying with this girl long term, I would confess what you did. She may be initially hurt and upset about the situation but think about how she's going to feel when she does find out.. And yes I said when she does find out, because lies eventually come out, it may take a while for her to find out but she will and then what?

If you care about her at all and want a relationship that's honest and solid, you should tell her. I never understood how people can cheat and go on their merry way like nothing happened without feeling the need at all to fess up. The guilt would eat me alive.

Honesty is best. How can you claim to love someone and not feel guilty. Although the person above me has a point....all I have to say is go with your gut. I have been on the same boat as you but I confessed and was honest...the truth will always bite you in the ass

I completely disagree with Mrs. If you see yourself with this girl long term and you truely see this as a one time stupid mistake and will not do it again, why let it blow your relationship up? It's was one drunken kiss. Nit like you slept with her. If it were me I wouldn't want to know if it were a one time mistake. Granted, I do think you should feel guilty as hell. Just keep your mouth shut and don't f'ing do it again!!

LOL good one bro.

To the person who submitted the original story.... Really? You haven't told the woman you love that you got drunk and made out with someone. You should be open and honest and take whatever happens, and deal with it. Be an adult! Pull up your big boy panties and fess up! If it were the other way around, and she had done this to you, wouldn't you want her to be honest with you? Would you care? I think you would. I think she will too, but I also think the two of you can work through it. Get a better attitude, or leave this woman who doesn't deserve to be cheated on. Love is a two way street. Don't get busted for jay-walking.

If you are in an open relationship why would she freak? Perhaps in her eyes it's not as open as you might like to believe, else you wouldn't have a problem telling her ....

sure it's normal you don't love your gf that''s all.

It's too bad the good people in this world are too nice to want to purge the asshole cheaters from it.

it's just a kiss. not like you impregnated her. she doesn't need to know. no harm done.

If staying long term I would confess but if you dont know if you see yourself with this girl in the next couple of years then let it go. I know how it is. I get drunk then horny and need some release if my girl isnt around to give me that ill find someone who will.