I've become desensitized to the horrors of the world

These days, it seems like I can see some of the most horrible things in the world and yet not feel too emotional. I hear so many horrible stories on the news, on YouTube or any other site, yet when I see the stories, I usually have a straight face.

Whether it be rape/animal cruelty/pedophilia/torture/child abuse/murder/etc., my mind can typically handle the whole package. I've also seen people online posting videos of horrid things they did, and while this provokes mindless (though not necessarily unjustified) emotional rage from most people, I can calmly write a polite comment condemning the actions. I mean obviously I'd feel a little bad for the victims and may take measures to avoid it, but emotionally, it usually leaves little to no effect on me, and NO news story or raw footage of anything has left me in tears. Now before you accuse me of not having empathy, I do certainly understand the agony many of the victims have and are going through, and if I can I'll try to help. I just don't feel much out of those horror stories.

In this regard, I'm kind of like Sherlock from the new BBC drama. He obviously doesn't approve of the horrible things people do and will do many things to prevent it, but he feels little emotion when they happen.

Is it normal to be this way?

P.S. I am not saying that there is more bad than good in the world, nor am I a pessimist. I'm simply saying that I'm desensitized to horrible things I see.

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  • Update: I shed a few tears seeing the tweets of the MH370 victim's daughter.

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  • SchizoidPsycho

    Yeah I'm completely desensitized. I watch real life snuff, gore and execution videos to feed my soul.

    I think its one of the advantages/disadvantages? of seeing too much too early.

    I almost feel like I could never be traumatized again, but I may be wrong.

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    • I really hope you're not using them for pleasure.

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      • SchizoidPsycho

        Well unhope. Miss sadistic coming through.

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  • Somethingusername

    I feel the same as you, I watch all this stuff on the news and on the internet and I have no reaction. I'm desensitized from it all. At university I'm studying policing and I get to photograph dead bodies and I love it.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I imagine it would be considerably different if you saw these things in person.
    Unlike many in the film industry, I believe violence on film should be every bit as graphic as in real life, as a deterrent to violence in real life. Watching the victim of a violent crime on film without the gore, agony and mess creates exactly what you are feeling.
    This stuff is a great deal more gruesome in real life.

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    • Probably, because then I'd be able to do something about it if it was happening before my eyes.

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