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Ever since I was 13 years old, I wanted to lose my virginity by rape. That way nobody can call me irresponsible or scold me for it. And the concept of it sort of turns me on. But I don't REALLY want to get raped, because there's the high risk that I'll be immediately murdered. Is this at all normal?
Try play rape. Ask a boy to pretend to rape you it's still fun and without the distress
1. You are probably religious or from a religious family that forbids sex before marriage
2. The same religion allows being raped without consequence on the victim
3. You want to cheat the system by abusing number 2
4. You need to realize most if not all religious rule are not written by a god, but by men. So I think you should just have sex and not feel guilt about it. Then take responsibility for it.
I was once religious, and I have been in your shoes. Honestly, if a God exists who forbids you from doing something that won't harm anyone, then that would not be a god you would want to follow.
If you are not religious, nor are your parents, then you are just being silly.
That's been my problem, and it's hard because part of me want to be a virgin until marriage, but part of me is just a horny female.
why do 64% of people on this website think it is normal to want to be raped.
No it is not normal. My virginity was taken by a man that raped me. Eleven years later I am still living with the emotional scars from that aweful experience.
I was raped when I was 14, I was a virgin. I feel dirty and tainted still. You're disgusting for wanting it, it is in no way normal.
I was raped when I was a virgin. I was 12 years old and he was like 19. He followed me home waited for my parents to leave. Raped me on two different occasions. So not worth it
No it's not normal! You're idealising rape; it might be a fantasy for you but the reality is very different. You can't want rape because, by its very nature, it's non-consentual sex i.e. against your will.
It's certainly abnormal to be so scared of your parents scolding you about having consensual sex for the first-time you think some strange man forcing you is somehow a better scenario.
I can't believe the majority voted normal for this. Who the hell frequents this site?
Ask yourself this question, have you ever been sexually abused? If so, ask yourself even more questions....you ought to talk to a counselor about this openly to try and figure yourself out a little better
"Play rape" is more accurately described as "ravishment." Fantasies about rape are actually extremely common, doesn't mean anyone really wants to be raped. Your particular situation sounds like a perfectly logical urge, though I think if you want to have sex, you should, and be safe, consenting, and own up to it--NEVER claim a man raped you who really did not, that's so cruel. Though I recommend you start with vanilla sex, you will probably enjoy kinky sex later, up to and including ravishment. "Oh no, please don't take my virginity, tall dark stranger"
well it might be normal i wish the same lol but with someone hot to rape me in a safe way mabie like a friend to make me drunk and tie me up or something .
You're probably a stupid little girl who doesn't know what it means to be raped.
ravishment is a theme that figures in most of my dreams and fantasies. Don't worry, 82% of women admit to the same. Even more wont admit but think about it. Many women report enjoying being raped but most to embarrassed to admit this. When the attacker makes her have an orgasm against their will this is the most humiliating of all.
I believe women were made to service men and should learn early on how to submit properly.
Sounds like you were raised to think that it's bad for a woman to want sex. It's not your fault, but whoever raised you.
That being said, since the rape fetish is already in your system, I'm sure you can find a boyfriend willing to go along with it, so your fantasy can be played out without anyone getting hurt.
if you wanted it, then it is not rape. rape by definition is being forced to have sex, if you wanted it then its not rape. so, technically speaking you cannot want to be raped because "wanting" implies consensuality
just like what secretguy25 said it would be safer with a friend then at least no risk and no scars.
I actually for a while (before I got a bf) wanted that by the guys who I knew didn't like me. But trust me girl you don't want that, it hurts like hell. Do it with some one you trust and love. ;D