I used to have a really high sex drive, but now don't care

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OK, so I have always been quite a horny person, but was a virgin until about a year ago, but now I have sex and it doesn't feel good and I just can't be bothered, to the point where I am avoiding being with people cause I don't want to not enjoy sex? (Female, 21) I'm just disappointed it doesn't have the wow factor, and I want to enjoy it, but its just not happening. (Plus it still makes me sore?)

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  • ygrowup
    9 years ago

    I wish I could state answer better then one before me, but I cannot, it was worded correctly and good advice, seek someone older and mature, and seek a check up from a doctor and inform them of your problem, to be sure nothing it wrong.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I really hope you don't give up on sex. Like anything else, sex takes practice; nobody has any natural ability in that department. And being such a young girl, you've probably chosen your lover(s) by their looks, rather than their compatibility, so you've most likely only been with very selfish lovers (all young men are selfish lovers). I repeat, just so you get it; all young men are selfish lovers.
    Try a relationship with a more mature man, whose pleasure is derived from your pleasure, not his ejaculations. Good luck and please don't lose faith; sex is a grand and wonderful gift that every human should derive pleasure from.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Thanks for your reply this is a big help. To be fair its hard to find those guys at college. I'm not a shallow person AT ALL, but hookups have tended to be with people I meet on a night out (that then become friends/whatever) so I guess the initial attraction is physical. I guess I'll have to wait until I mature myself until I find a more mature guy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I lost intrest in sex as i got older too. Not sure why.

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