I truly hate children...now what?

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I hate children, every single aspect of them annoys me profoundly.
Ok, that shouldn't be a problem right? Wrong... my girlfriend loves babies, and wants to have them someday (sooner rather than later since I'm 26 and she's 27..ticktock ticktock).
Oh, my parents? They WAAANT grandchildren, her parents? Worse...
And the problem is: I rather die than have a kid... how should I handle this?

Have a baby, be unhappy the rest of your life 14
Dump her 48
Stay with her without family whatsoever 14
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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Find someone that you have more in common with.

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  • janetsauce
    11 years ago

    Hey, they aren't children forever. They grow up :pp

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  • Blackwidow
    11 years ago

    I say dump her... I'm sorry but IT IS YOUR LIFE.

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  • throat_cutter
    10 years ago

    This is a recipe for disaster. You are two completely different individuals with distinct future perceptions and goals. Do you really want to live disgruntled annoyed bitter and resentful when you'd be forced to do your fatherly obligations, also would it be fair to these children to have been unwanted in the first place?

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  • boston12
    11 years ago

    do u intend on having the ' i hate babies talk'? coz she deserves to no, yes her clock is ticking. tell her so she can find a partner who wants a family.

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  • nAt2017
    11 years ago

    You deserve to be happy, and so does she. If you want different things, then it's in your best interest to break up.

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  • JestCat
    11 years ago

    I know where you're coming from here. Women always want that little baby until they actually have it. Dump her ass and find someone that understands kids are.. (thinks of a kind way to say it) ..not the best choice for a relationship.

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  • DolphinAngel
    11 years ago

    I voted stay with her without family whatsoever but that won't solve the problem because both of you won't be happy with that... so sry bro but unless you want at least one of you unhappy dump her...

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  • NoraBaker
    11 years ago

    It's YOUR life. Parents and in-laws aside, you need a partner who shares your views. You hate kids, but do you hate the idea of having a family? They do grow up, you know.

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