I truly envy females

I love being a woman and I’m happy with my life, I think I’d hate being a man. But it’s not all glamour and being given flowers every 5 minutes. My husband and I both work, admittedly he is employed more hours and has a more demanding job, but when he comes home he relaxes. I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping etc. I don’t sit and relax when I get home I start doing housework and cooking. When he gets home I make him a drink while he sits and waits for dinner to be ready. After dinner he retires to the living room while I clean up. Most Saturdays I spend changing the bed, doing laundry, going food shopping, deep cleaning a room in the house on a rotation basis and still cooking dinner in the evening. He usually has a round of golf or goes to the gym or has a game of squash on a Saturday morning. Sunday’s he has me make breakfast in bed, he says it should be a day of rest so we spend the day together and do something relaxing or fun. When we come home I still make dinner, I still clean up afterwards and I still make sure he has clean ironed shirt and trousers for Monday morning. You should consider all these things before you wish for a different life!

Many of the things you said are true theoretically, but it isn't necessarily the reality. The clothing thing is true, but much more attention is paid to women's appearances than men's. So, while what you're saying about clothing looking better on women is true for sure, there's also an added burden from it.

The pain tolerance thing is a common misconception. It's actually the opposite. Not only do women have more potential sources of pain (e.g. childbirth, PMS, etc.), but women also tend to be more susceptible to various forms of pain as well. It doesn't make much sense given that women go through childbirth, but it's true.

As for the women being more protected by society, this is true in terms of what society values. But there are many scumbags out there that have zero respect for women. And thus, women are at a much greater risk of domestic violence and sexual assault.

However, the longer orgasms thing is true, definitely. Plus, women can have multiple orgasms whereas this is effectively impossible for males. The better sense of colors thing is true as well. But overall, women face a lot of hardships that men don't have to worry about.

And I think it's probably a more difficult life overall. It only looks as though it would be easier when looking from the outside. Though, as a guy, I have thought the same thing that you did. Until I became more aware of the fact that women actually go through a lot of things in life that men don't have to face.

I think its common enough to feel & i was born the wrong sex". A lot of men assume its " easier" being female cause people treat us better( if youre pretty at least) but its only true in first world countries, in certain economic circles. But in most countries its way worse!I have so many hormone issues and having just one baby nearly killed us both. I always feel "not good enough" though as i age i dont care so much.
Also try to enjoy the positive. Its acceptable for guys to wear make up and nearly any clothes, to be into girlie stuff and hey, i cant grow a beard or pee my initials in the snow.
I wish i had straight hair and longer legs but i dont. Try to be happy with what youve got, at least be at peace with it.
I know a few folks who have transitioned and their lives were not magically perfect.

But that birthing process seems unbearable.

Hey man, be happy with yourself, be yourself

Well, good for you, honey, but PMS, and menopause are a bitch. It's not as easy being female as you might think, and personally when it comes to dating I prefer to drive myself.