I tried and tried

i tried and tried to get on the good side of my mom to the point where shes turned me down so many times i thought about suicide. she doesnt care about me or anything in my life. sometimes i think that if i got stabed and was dying and my sister was crying shed go to my sister. i have finnaly decided my life sucks. is it normal to hate my mom because i really do.

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Comments ( 13 )
  • Ryan7395

    May I suggest... MURDER?!

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  • peterrabbyt4

    Do you like to suck men's cocks?

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  • toforgetmylove&understandhis

    Confront her. Tell her about your needs and concerns

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  • ccjigsaw

    I find the harder you try the less it works. Give up on her, not life. You might be surprised. I've had the same trouble, when she realized I didn't care anymore SHE had to try to keep me. And if ur mom doesn't, she's not worth the trouble

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  • my mom is a crazy self absorbed alcoholic.
    i feel for you

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  • this is fake

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  • Fartyr

    HEy, my mom is a selfish woman too. She spent all my childhood working her butt off to save all her money to retire at age 50. Now, her second husband has ditched her and she's crying to me for her security WITH ALMOST $500,000 in the bank mind you. These chicks are just selfish and even though they are are moms they can really do damage to your head. I am 37 and still trying to un-fu#k my mind from the stuff my parents put in there. DISLODGE YOURSELF.

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  • linko337

    Sometimes my mom doesn't give me the attention I need like if I think there is something wrong with me that I need to see a doctor about she is a nurse so she will be like no it is fine so she will drive me crazy sometimes

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  • simba1

    You poor woman. I really feel for you. I have been through the same thing. I am now 35, and havent spoken to my mother since I was 18. (She is a nutcase, but that is besides the point!!!) She thinks my brother is the cats pyjamas, and it used to really get me down. I now realise that I am better off without her, and she is the loser, not me. I wish you all the best for the future. I hope if you dont already have a mother-in-law, you will one day have one that is like a mother to you, and be someone who you can talk to about anything.

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  • merm

    Please don't kill youself. My moms a totla self centered bitch too. I feel for you. You just need to distance yourself from her as much as you can and life will get better I promise. Don't ever forget that you are a good person and one of a kind. The world would be a sadder place without you.

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  • susan86

    Wow that is so sad, I can't imagine making my children feel that way.... I would probably feel the same way if I felt my mom didn't love me. But if you are having suicidal thought maybe you should talk to your dr.

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  • rokdahouse

    Don't hurt urself, this is a problem....please.....I know sumtimes it seems like ur life sux, I've been goin thru sum hard times too...don't give up and done lose hope...Jesus cares about u!

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  • radishbobby84

    honestly if your thinking about suiside then yes it's alright to hate your mom but it's because it's her problem that she didn't pay attition to you Which would make her a bad mom in my opinion don't do suiside dude i've lost slot of good friends because of that I hope things get better doe you bro.

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