I told my crush i like her and cried a lot today

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There's this guy that I really like so much, it almost like a virus, there's no cure for it. We have no possibilities to be together and I'm having a really hard time to move on from him so I just thought maybe it's better for me to confess my feelings and get rejected by him. I've been thinking about this for around 2 weeks.

During P.E class today, I went to the rest room and saw him alone. So I thought that was the best chance for me, so I approached him, closed my eyes, and confessed my feelings to him. My purpose was to get rejected so it will be easier for me to move on from him but,

He said that he had no idea that I like him, and that he doesn't have any thoughts to be in relationship now. He apologized to me and said that I'm too good for him. That was really unexpected and I teared up right away. 🥺😭 I didn't expect anything, but after hearing what he said my eyes went red and I cried, my crush was so shocked to see me crying so he kept on apologizing and comforting me. I felt like a nuisance to him so I told him it's okay and ran away. Since then, I've been ignoring him and focused on my classes. After that, I went home and cried so hard until I fell asleep.

I just woke up a few minutes ago and was eating my dinner when I suddenly got a text from him, and I cried again because of that.. I still haven't read the text yet, I don't know what should I reply, I don't know if I should greet him again if we ever meet. I think I will freeze and can't even talk whenever I see him now.

I really liked him so much and it was my first time contacting a guy first, confessing to a guy, etc.. Considering my personality, I think what I just did was really brave of me, I feel so refreshed now that I did it. What do I do now?

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  • GeekyGold
    3 years ago

    Aw if I could give you a hug I would! You were brave with what you did because not everyone I had the guts to confess, especially when they know they will get rejected.

    All I can advise is to finish letting your feelings out and take a deep breath. Then if you are ready then read the message. Your crush seemed like a really nice guy so I doubt it was anything awful, he’s probably checking on you.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    3 years ago

    Try not to feel too upset, this guy sounds nice enough so it's good that there'll be no hard feelings at least. You should be really proud of yourself for being brave enough to do that. I had a crush on a girl in school but never did anything about it and I still regret it when I think about it. You also sound very in touch with your emotions, which is a great thing.

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  • thepuppet
    3 years ago

    well if you're asking if your feelings are normal, yes they are, and congrats on confessing to your crush directly because not many people have the bravery to do so

    if you're asking what to do next, you'll probably won't be satisfied if you never talk to him again. at some point you should try to talk to him normally (like not freezing up) and maybe, if you want to, prepare to ask him out in the future or see if he's interested in you that way

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  • mafioso
    3 years ago

    If you really do want him, just wait for the right moment and be his friend. It may lead to something more :)

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  • GaelicPotato
    3 years ago

    Ah, to be young again.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    That was like me, I told this autistic girl on an app and I like her and she liked me back. I plan to meet her one day in real life.

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