I thought she was my friend..

She's not your friend. Wakeup call.

I've been out of high school for 2 1/2 years and there were guys who I had HUGE crushes on. But they ignored me and were very mean to me for no reason other than that I was a little chubby. I was hurt over and over by their rejection but soon, I learned to focus on my self, get over it and GROW UP. Now, they're all over me. They stalk my Facebook like there's no tomorrow. They call me "the one that got away." At college, they want to date me and pretend we got along so well in school. I'm happy to say, in two years most of them have become fat (I'm so not kidding) losers who are "in between jobs", got kicked out of school & live at home. But guess what, I have a car, and my OWN 2bd apartment in LA. Why? Because I stopped letting little crushes get me down. And focused on becoming something to envy. This guy won't know what he missed until later in life.

Those guys were jerks, they're the same jerks like the guy you have a crush on. Only you won't realize it until a few years from now. Get over him.

The thing about girls is, girls are insecure little sluts who need attention and validation (I should know, I am one). You may be pretty or "cute", and if you're pretty that makes her insecure, which makes her feel bad, which means, if he picks her over you,
SHE must be prettier than YOU.

A lot of girls play games like that. Competition with other girls is ruthless. She probably enjoys the fact that she's getting attention from a boy you like, she probably feels superior to you because of that. Or maybe because you have such a big crush on him that made her kinda like him too.

In any case she is not a person I would want in my life. It would be healthy for you to choose to no longer be friends with her. That would show self-respect. If you stay friends with her it shows very low self-esteem.

You should just stop talking to her, hang out with your other friends or make new friends, and if she asks you why, act like nothing happened... it doesn't bother you.

Or you can tell her that you choose not to have friends who treat you like dirt - by flirting with the guy you really, really like right in front of you. If she likes him, she should have talked to you first.

Nonetheless, you can't control her or change her, you can only control your own reaction to the situation. BTW don't use the term "madly in love" in vain. It's just a crush, and it's probably unhealthy for you to have such a huge crush on a guy who treats you like shit anyway. I guarantee you there's a nice guy who has a big crush on you right under your nose, and you probably ignore him.

kick her in the pussy

I agree with the above.Due to these kind of friendships I turned out to be a person who uses her "friends".I wouldn't do this kind of thing of course but you have to see that she uses you.Whether she's jealous or a asaddist or wants your crush it doesn't matter.You will hopefully live another 60 years.Don't let it get you.

Save yourself the trouble and find a new friend. It's sad but most people will only treat as well as you allow them to. And some friends try to destroy any kind of relationship you might attempt to form away from them. They want to keep you in a box so to speak. I had a friend like this, a guy, who would dash my hopes anytime I expressed interest in a girl. I thought at first he was trying to help me but it turned out he just didn't want me to "leave" or something weird like that. Yeah, people are weird like that and you've got to learn to A) avoid those kinds of people or B) put them in check.

this is what happens when you play it cool too long.. you gotta tell him how you feel

Be cool...
I was that guy bk in hs and i boned all the girls..
Just wait your turn youll b fine...

Your friend is not a nice person, but that really is normal. She just doesn't follow the doctrine of hoes before bros. Women have a tendency to like guys who other girls like, as if men were a fashion trend. Display an interest in some other guy and maybe she'll lose interest.

all is fair in love and war

your actually stupid...there's still a lot of fishes in the ocean...and to your best friend you better forget her,she is too insensitive!..and be strong.crying wont help you to win that guy..why not change your self for better...like be more confident and be more pretty..make him realize that its not your lost but his!.. girl power!

Who cares about your friend if you like the guy pull him aside and shove his cock in your mouth thats all he wants trust me.

NO tats really lousy i wud never do tat ta a m8 id kil the bitch

your not in love with him you have a crush on him love is a feeling that grows through past experiences and memorys together of shared events you have a crush it will probably fade

First of all you are not in love with him.

Sorry to break it to you. but you aren't.

If he ignors you and doesn't talk to you, then you really know nothing about him therefore you are only in love with him by his looks and the things you hear. Which isn't real love at all.

Second, even though your immaturity is funny, your friend is a bitch. What kind of friend does that to you? a BAD friend and bad friend shouldn't be have.

When your best friend has sex with your ex of two years that you are still in love with, then post a story.

Drop the friend, drop the crush, and start living life.

only if you have b*tchy friends

I was going to make a comment but it seems like Ollieo has pretty much summed up what i was going to say =)
Find another person to like - he sounds like a doofus to me - it'll hurt but you'll feel so much better for it.
Have you asked your friend why she's doing this? Talking is always the best way to sort out your issues. I know this sounds really strange but she may not know she's doing it. If she does realise she's doing it, this is a cry for help or she is a spiteful little madam and she isn't worth the trouble.
Take care x

No, it sounds kind of inconsiderate of her, yet your friend was only hanging out with him, and he is not your property.

You need to take some responsibility for yourself. Crushing over this guy who ignores and doesn't like you - well - you could have a bit more self respect don't you think?