I think the worst thoughts possible for no reason

I have intrusive thoughts about inflicting horrific pain on people toward whom I bear no ill-will, and often for whom I feel great love and respect. This may be ‘OCD’ in some mild form. For instance, I may be with a close female friend holding hands walking through the park, and suddenly I will enact in my head the imaginary scenario of my suddenly punching her quite hard out of nowhere, perhaps in the face. I imagine the sound of her sudden cry of shock and bewilderment coupled with physical pain, her sudden shift from being a friend of mine to being a permanent enemy. A scene such as this would be an absolutely absurd tragedy; a senseless loss very similar to an automobile accident. Do I really want to hit this dear friend of mine? Is this really the low esteem in which I hold this person? Of course not!!! I thought I liked this person! Could it be that deep down I have no inherent respect for any living entity other than a totally superficial sort? This is inevitably more than I can bear to think about, and I always just ignore and tuck these thoughts away…I think these thoughts fairly frequently whenever I am in a good situation with a person I am on good terms with. Why? At first it would seem that I have an inherent lack of self-trust. My best guess is this all started with early childhood transgressions, when I would indeed act on absurd violent thoughts just to test the consequences of what would happen. I never did anything as absurd as simply punch a friend out of nowhere, however. As a child I might play the role of a relentless bullying antagonist to everyone around me unconditionally, for instance, until I was reprimanded for it.

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  • lysergic.nightshade

    Everyone has these thoughts, they just dont admit it.

    Thats what separates the sane from the insane. Most of us dont act on these thoughts.

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  • Fuckyouallk

    I get this also...

    But only when somebody is explaining something to me and they are near by. Like in the store or something.

    I suddenly get the idea like "What would happen if I smack this guy in the face right now... He would probably punch me back and I'd get kicked out of the store for good and everybody would think of me as some kinda weird sick crazy kid."

    It's just weird and I don't like it.

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  • thischarmingman

    I get the same feelings and its really fucked up. Its scary cos these dark, violent thoughts can randomly come into your mind. Scares the crap out of me to think that I could imagine such things. Its worst when im lying next to my girlfriend. Suppose everyone has a mean streak.

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  • BeyondAverageJoe

    I think you're a creative person with pent up creative energy. Perhaps your bored. Perhaps you've put yourself into too much isolation as of late, and you need more outlets for expression.

    It seems like you've also reached a level of awareness that borders enlightenment, and instead of looking at your past to find "what's not normal" you should practice living in the moment and embracing yourself for who you are. Ask yourself, how much time do you really spend living in the now?

    You cant outsmart time, you cant make up for the past or measure up to the future. So enjoy the present times for all their worth, find angles to them that keep you interest in the now, and if intrusive thoughts come, redirect your mind to take interest in your surroundings. For tangible, real-life moments are much more powerful than the imagined ones.

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  • Foreveralone93

    Sometimes when me and a loved one look over the edge of a high building I imagine them falling off and what life would be like as their death but then I feel fear and stay away from the edge, but its rare when I imagine me being the cause of it, especially purposely.

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  • lovecats

    I hate this and it happens to me. Intrusive thoughts are often a form of OCD

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  • izzit

    I think it is normal to have thoughts of getting even when someone is harassing you and bullying you and doing gangstalking tactics and when the police and everyone else you call refuses to help you and actually add to the problem, then everyone I know says they not only think of getting even but they are actually doing lots of things to get even and then that affects everyone, the things they are doing, so actually it would benefit everyone if they would do something about the bullying and gangstalking in the first place.

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