I think the term "there’s someone for everyone" is a lie

I don't care either way. I simply don't keep company with someone that annoys me. What others do in their own home or what they believe is their own business.

What I find interesting is why these people get to you? Surely you can live your life in peace? Maybe move if you live in a neighborhood full of people you don't like. Its what I have done in the past.

It’s not wise for some people to be in a relationship, I agree.

I agree with you OP.

Because nowadays everyones a victim. No matter what happens its never their fault. That mindset is cancer too. They dont realize their mindset is why they're not successful.

The point is that they are not the only one with those exact problems. The reality though is that most of us would never find our "soulmate" type of person because that would require getting know everyone in the world. People who are happily married / paired just have a higher tolerance I suppose

What about those who fall into none of these categories...?

I'm with you, man. I support your assertions.

Its a liberal lie.

I do believe there is someone for everyone. However, many of us see our prospective "someones" and decide it is not worth it.

I have heard a few times that roughly 95 percent of the population wants to date the other 5%. In other words, roughly 19 out of 20 want someone out of their league.

How many neckbeards won't settle for a woman because she's too fat, has kids, or just isn't good looking enough? While it is true that most men do not want that but for most, it is their dating pool.

Or what about women who are fat, unattractive, have kids, etc? Even if a man is interested in her, he doesn't want to be seen with her.

Side note - Women don't seem to have shame about who they are seen with for some reason.

Now MY dating pool looks like Jeff Bezos (Amazon CEO) net worth -
A one, a couple fives, and tons of zeros. Oh yes the zeros.
Even when I was young and at my best, my selection sucked.
Today, I do not bother trying to date because I am not looking to uproot my life over some dude or piece of ass that won't be worth a damn.

I agree an individual male or female has to make an effort to find someone. Fate is bs.

Darwinism is a bitch.

Who wants to put up with a lazy partner who wont work? Who wants to get beat and yelled at by their partner with anger issues? Who wants to be a yes-man/woman and have no opinion so they can feed their partner's ego? Lastly, who wants to deal with crazy mental disorders that a person refuses to acknowledge? No sensible person would want these.

The only one on your list that's acceptable are those born with genetic physical defects that require a lot of care. Though their chances of reproducing are slim, they can still try to make the most of life if possible.

Can't 2 weirdos find each other? Or do they just irritate one another too much?

I agree with all but the first one. I don't think someone having severe physical disabilities makes them undatable. There are people who will see past that. There are even people who have a weird mummy complex who would prefer to be a caregiver than a traditional partner. Also a physical disability could happen to anyone at any time. If my husband suddenly became severely disabled for some reason and I had to dress him every morning and wipe his ass for him then I certainly wouldn't leave him. It would be hard and it would get me down but I'd still love him and I'd cope with it. I think an awful lot of people would do it for love.

The other ones though... Yeah. I agree that they're probably undatable.

And if you're blessed with a happy relationship why should the onus be on the have-nots to 'suck it up' rather than on the haves to show understanding? What is an annoying little complaint for you is for them, the closest substitute for satisfaction that they have. It's a small thing to endure the complaint, but being repeatedly silenced in their pain breaks a person's spirit.

I'm sitting on a bench eating lunch and the bench has been designed so that it's impossible for a person to lie down on it. What's worse, depriving a person who has nothing of a place to lay their head, or making a place look 'untidy'?

people nowadays have fucked up priorities and standards
most girls wouldnt go for guys with a mental health condition because he isnt manly enough, they wouldnt go for a guy with medical issues because its a sign of "weak"
very ridiculous, this is why the 60s was better as personality was what everyone went for and not if you had abs etc

as said in friends, the world has lots of ice cream, so take a spoon and dive in

Theres a personality for everyone. Wether or not you are going to like thier face is another thing entirely

I think I agree but I'm skeptical. There really isn't anyway to know.