I think the guy i love thinks i'm annoying, is that normal?....

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This guy I really Love, and he loves me too. We are practically a couple. He just won't ask me out yet. We talk like a couple, he calls me baby, and we tell eachother we love eachother. Well anyway. I talk to him on Facebook a-lot! We dont ever hangout in person a-lot but we Facebook chat eachother everyday. But there are some days when he just ignores me, or doesnt reply, and sometimes I will send him sweet morning messages and he wont reply. But then on other days he will be VERY sweet and kind, and reply's like crazy. But everytime he doesnt reply or anything I freak out, I feel as if he hates me... And I feel like I'm boring to him now, or just not interesting enough. And I also feel very annoying. But I won't stop... I just can't and i just wanna leave him alone for a couple days but I'm scared he might get mad at me. And theres also this other girl he likes so when she is online I notice he is unresponsive, and I feel like if I leave him alone she will take over. I really like him A-LOT.(What can I do, to make him like me more?) But this girl I was talking about likes him too, and I'm super worried.
Is this normal??

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Based on 36 votes (19 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal until you tell him your feelings and he accepts them. I think most people are unsure of their stance in a relationship without confirmation that the feelings are mutual.
    What are you waiting for? Don't wait for him to ask you out. If he rejects you, move on.

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    • NeonBright
      12 years ago

      Thanks so much! (:

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Aw, you're welcome! I hope it works out. If it doesn't don't dwell on it. You'll find someone who likes you too one day.

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      • epicbirdythe1
        12 years ago

        Tumblestar said:"I think its normal until you tell him your feelings and he accepts them" or somthing like that,anyway, I agree with Tumblestar. Show/tell him your feelings.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    " But there are some days when he just ignores me, or doesnt reply, and sometimes I will send him sweet morning messages and he wont reply. "

    Maybe he's not in the same relationship you think you're in

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    He is probably busy with his wife and kids.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Wow, what kinda cologne does he wear?

    Its not obsession by any chance is it?

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