I think that i hate my older brother

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I have always had some sort of issue with my older brother, and I know it's not right. When we were younger and were going somewhere I would make sure to walk faster than him and then swear at him because he was slow. Like, sometimes he makes some food for me and if he for example mashed the potatos, I would make sure to make him feel bad by saying that I won't eat it and then go to my room eventhough I know it hurts him or makes him cry a bit. Sometimes I would actually do it on purpose, just to make him cry. I get aggravated whenever I see him and I think that I really hate him for no reason. I literally want to see him suffer. Is that normal?

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Based on 33 votes (13 yes)

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ChaoticBunny

9 years ago

Of course its not normal to treat your brother that way if he didn't do anything wrong. Have you tried family counseling? I hope everything will turn out ok.

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mscurriouus

9 years ago

Why would you even ask if it's normal? So it's ok to just fk him up for the future? Speechless... What a bitch.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Calm your tits, asshole. I asked because someone might be able to relate and maybe tell me a way to overcome it. It's not like I want to hate him, and I'm most likely not going to be a part of his future so that's not going to be an issue (and it's none of your concern). By the way: I'm speechless as well but the reason for that is because you're being judgemental towards me eventhough you're not a part of my life and therefore don't see that I'm trying fucking hard to be a better sister. I can take criticism but I'm not going to let you say i'm a bitch or whatever when you don't even know what it's like.
  
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bleach_baby

9 years ago

That's really a shame. I've had problems with my older brother too - we're very different people with very different opinions on just about everything, and he bugs the fuck out of me. On the other hand, I know he loves me and that letting my aversion show would be hurtful to him, and he hasn't done anything to deserve it apart from be himself. So I suck it up like an adult. Be a good person, be kind to your brother if he's done nothing to deserve your hate.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'll try, but it's a hard thing to do when it has been going on for some years now. Thanks for your comment :)
  
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Energy

9 years ago

Wow...

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I know it's bad but I don't know what to do about it... Everything he does makes me annoyed.
  
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  - Energy
    
    9 years ago
    
    So everytime someone annoyed me would that be a good reason for me to beat the shit out of them? Because I'd use that excuse. Or maybe kill them. *in court* "well I don't know your honor...everything they did annoyed me..."
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Wow, I've never said anything about killing him so calm down. I've never beaten him as well, so stop making shit up. I just really hate him. I've never hurt anyone physically so why the fuck are you assuming that?
      
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      - Energy
        
        9 years ago
        
        I'm just using your excuses as an example of what could be. I never said anything about you killing or beating people up.
        
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