I think somethings wrong with my vagina (no trolls, sincere people only)

This is for SINCERE people only! If you’re a man who likes to troll, please don’t respond to this (unless you’re being serious) I know this is a bad website to post this and I’m probably going to get trolled, but I’m a teenager and I don’t have the resources to see a special doctor, and I’ve been looking up on the internet for information but nothing has given me the answers.

There are 6 main things that concern me.

1, It looks strange. The smaller lips are really long and one side is thinner than the other.
2, I don’t know if I have a hymen. I’ve tried looking for it but can’t find it. I’ve never had any sexual action besides touching myself and someone else touching me when I was little. (I don’t know exactly what happened. I know I was abused but I don’t think it was full on raped enough to break the hymen because I was so small I would have been hospitalized from it, and my adoptive mother says there’s no records of that).
3, I discharge a lot. Even when not aroused I will feel gushes of wetness sometimes. I have to change my underwear twice a day because of this.
4, I’m aroused almost constantly. I touch myself about 2-3 times a day. I’ve tried to stop but can’t. Even when I’m in a time crunch and shouldn’t be doing it at all, I can’t stop. Even when I was little I’d do it so much my mom would come into the bathroom and tell me to get out.
5, I feel very sensitive and weird about it. Its like a small animal with emotional feelings of its own attached to my feelings, or a cut i need to hide or else it will get hurt. I often feel nervous or anxious after making myself climax.
6, It has a weird smell. Not really bad but just weird. Like sour candies mixed with sex smell.

I’ve asked my mom a few questions about this but it’s embarrassing and she gets disappointed when I tell her I’ve touched myself. I’m hoping there’s other females on here who can give me advice.

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  • MilitaryMedic

    I’m not a doctor, I’m a medic (EMT) and know a little about this.
    1. Normal. Vaginas are like other body parts, they come in all shapes and sizes. Typically even men have one testicle larger than the other, very few people are perfectly symmetrical.
    2. Don’t worry about the hymen, many girls are not born with one, and many tear it away through physical activity that doesn’t include sex (riding a bike could tear it). It is not inside the vagina, it is a small flap of skin at the vaginal opening, however it does not entirely cover the vaginal opening. Otherwise you wouldn’t be able to bleed freely during menstruation.
    3. The vagina contains glands that produce secretions which in fact continuously clean the vagina among other things. If the discharge is clear, it is likely normal for you. If the discharge is regularly bloody or yellowish, tell your mother you need to see a GYN.
    4. Normal for a teenager. You body is changing and hormones are “raging”.
    5. Normal and probably tied to how you were raised - if you were told “not to touch down there” or your mom’s “disappointment” about it. Masturbation is a normal and healthy function of becoming an adult and beyond.
    6. This together with #3 are a little concerning. Since vaginas are always cleaning themselves, they should not have a sour smell (like fresh bread or beer). They shouldn’t smell like much at all if you shower properly and wash that area with a mild soap. Contrary to what the other poster said in his off color remark, fresh sushi shouldn’t smell much either. You should see a GYN because you may have a yeast infection. Tell your mom, most woman have them at least once - not uncommon at all. Good luck.

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    • Bailey_Rose

      This is spot on! The only thing I would add to this is to wear panty liners. A comment below said maxi pads. I'd try panty liners first. And talk to your mom and see if she can get you in to see a GYN. Good luck!

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    • Thank you.

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  • Boojum

    Sensible and intelligent responses from KinkyPervert and MilitaryMedic, so I'll confine myself to your concerns about how your vulva looks. The appearance of the external genitals varies hugely between women (the link below will give you some idea of this variation). Bodies are rarely perfectly symmetrical, and this includes the genitals. It's also perfectly normal for the inner labia to protrude beyond the outer lips.

    https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Category:Female_human_genitalia_collection

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    • Thank you. That helped.

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  • EnglishLad

    To be honest it sucks that you don't want male input. I'd quite happily impart my helpful contributions if I was allowed to do so.

    Fuck it, I'll do it anyway.

    1) There is no such thing as a strange vagina, unless you have a disfiguring disease or viral infection (google: blue waffle). All vaginas are different and you should not be concerned about yours.

    2) If you were sexually molested when you were little, that's disgusting, and you most likely do not have a hymen, but again this is nothing to be afraid of. The hymen is a useless part of the vagina with no function in a woman's adult lifetime.

    3) Vaginal discharge is normal. Wear a good-quality maxi pad if you're bothered.

    4) Constant arousal probably has more to do with an underlying condition which affects your entire body, not just your vagina. It probably takes over your life, and you should get yourself seen by a qualified doctor and preferably diagnosed with something so that you can draw a line under that and put an end to everyone thinking you're a slut/whore.

    5) No-one should ever feel ashamed/embarrassed about their body or who they are. This is you so if anyone doesn't like it, they can take a running jump off of something high.

    6) There is lots of natural bacteria inside your vagina, and I can tell you from the number of times I have personally experienced eating a woman out that every woman I have slept with has been 100% healthy and had a vagina that smells like a sushi bar in downtown Tokyo. This is because the bacteria in your vagina is in a natural balance and bacteria in large numbers always have a weird smell. Don't forget you bleed once a month out of there too.

    If your mom gets upset with you for exploring your body, I would suggest she has a religious or moral reason for thinking that that behavior is unacceptable. To me, it seems like a natural part of growing up for any young lady who is still in the process of understanding her body and its functions. Do not be embarrassed by your body's natural rhythm.

    Sorry I'm not the ideal candidate for you to give you this advice, I'm sure you'd have preferred someone who had a vagina too, but seeing as no-one appears to have actually given you any advice to take away yet, I thought I'd fill the void with some of my own. Take care and have a nice day.

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    • Thank you. Yeah, I basically said that just to deter all the perverted trolls. Sincere men are fine. Thanks again!

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  • lonewolf1253

    All pretty normal. And a regular Dr. can tell you almost as much as a Gynecologist. People are afraid to talk to Drs. sometimes but believe me, nothing you've said here would cause any Dr. to bat an eyelash.

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    • Oh okay. I don’t have a doctor right now but if I do end up getting one I could do that. Thanks!

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  • enginelugger

    I'm a male and I feel there is nothing wrong with what you like doing. If it's enjoyable, why not? Vaginas comes in all shapes and sizes. Enjoy what you have, enjoy what you do. That's in my opinion if it matters.

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    • Okay thanks. I feel like I should change the post so good men understand that they are welcome.

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      • enginelugger

        That's okay, no problem 😊

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  • mm6969

    Im a guy with some years of experience , many long term relationships. for the most part girls only see and smell one vagina. I on the other hand have been an inch away from them through monthly cycles, smelled and tasted the differences ,seen periods react to birth control pills and so on . I have seen neat and compact ones (no lips ), ones with larger or uneven labia, small clitoris, longer clitoris hood. to me , they are all normal . i prefer the one that i am in love with , size and shape dont matter.
    I dated a girl that would get so wet just from fondling her breasts and deep kissing . she would soak through her jeans. she also had a very strong odor,she also orgasmed very hard. still normal to me.
    everything you listed in your concerns sounded very normal, as long as you dont have itching or burning all the wetness and being aroused is just your hormones trying to get you motivated to reproduce. as for a hymen . I have had 2 virgins in my life . I never asked to see proof of a hymen. I hope this helped and is not too strange . I can answer any questions you have

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    • Thank you. That helps.

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  • DandeLION777

    Completely normal. If im thinking about sex my penis will start to drip. Sometimes gotta chanhe my underwear. Wed be perfect for each other haha

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  • bobia_borupski

    everyone has this stuff you idiot

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  • I recommend going to a gynecologist. And therapy.
    It's normal to masturbate but it seems you can get compulsive about it.

    You need someone to talk about the abuse you suffered too.

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