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It seems like promiscuity leads to a lot of problems (unplanned pregnancies, STD'S, heartbreak.) I think it's best to save it for marriage. I honestly regret a lot of my libertine youth.
So you had your wild years with multiple sex partners. But now you think the following generations shouldn’t!!! How selfish are you!!!!!
Chad if it’s a personal preference
Cringe if you’re trying to force others to be that way
Sex is a healthy. If safe sex is practiced people should do what feels good.
I disagree mainly because it would make many people marry earlier and further increase chance of people being unhappy in marriage or divorce instead. If you declare you want to spend your whole life with someone, you at least should have spent a year living under the same roof. But I think it would be beneficial if people at least waited till they are in a relationship. Unplanned pregnancy can happen in marriage as well, as sometimes you just dont want kids but the urge to have sex is still there and its important part of a romantic relationship. STDs would be lower but still exist.
Somewhat agree but it is a big part of it, and part of what almost everyone expect. Most people who aren't asexual (which is a tiny minority) would probably find it a deal breaker if they couldn't have sex in the relationship and rather keep their options open for someone they actually can have sex with. Maybe some would be more tolerant of that if it was an open relationship so they could seek out others to have sex with, but most people aren't okay with an open relationship either.
Actually sex should be after marriage but only a psychopath can hold sex all their life until they're married. Normal people cant hold sex.
Nah, disagreed. It should be an individual decision. Not everyone ever wants to get married and if someone likes to sleep around, they're gonna do it even if they're married. Also, it's good to know if you're sexually compatible with your partner. One person might have a high sex drive and the other might have a really low one and it's gonna have a bad effect on the relationship. Just like if one partner is really selfish in bed and it's frustrating for the other. You should get to know each other in every way before deciding to get married.
In the wise words of Sun from Sense8
"We exist because of sex"
There's nothing wrong with saving yourself for marriage..... However, you're not going to convince others your opinion is right.
Imagine getting married then finding out she’s a shit fuck!!!! Sex is sex and we all like it so it should be free and we should be free to have sex with whom ever we want. I don’t even consider it cheating if it’s just sex because well, it’s just sex! Learn to differentiate sex from love as that are two different things and your enjoy it more. Think of sex as masturbation using someone else to help lol
i just thought u are wrong
be cause i read it like
"I think sex should only befor marriage"
but u r right
Funny, I don't regret any of what I did but when I think about it I'm just "ugh, I did that?? Haha" and then move back on to my present life.
Can't undo the done.
Correct. But people have the freedom to do it before as well. Whenever a person feels like it's right I guess.
Edit: I don't know why people said this isn't normal lol.