I think sex is nasty
I have to really be in the mood to even watch porn on any other normal day it’s just nasty and animalistic to me
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I have to really be in the mood to even watch porn on any other normal day it’s just nasty and animalistic to me
If it's done with love and respect, sex is a magical experience.
Porn is fake.
You're free to think of it that way, you're free to ignore any sexual urges you may occasionally feel and you're free to never have sex in any form.
Obviously, if your view of sex had become the norm at any point in the history of our species, we wouldn't be here, so your feelings on this aren't normal in that sense.
Such feelings are pretty normal for pre-teens, people who have been raised in a sex-negative environment, those who have been sexually abused and those who just have a minimal sex drive by some accident of biology.
If you actually believe that what you see in porn is all there is to sex, you have a lot to learn. Good sex with a partner you feel a deep emotional connection to can be as profound and moving an experience as anything you'll ever experience in any context during your life. But, yeah, sex can also be animalistic, and sometimes animalistic sex is freaking amazing too, because here's a newsflash for you: humans _are_ animals. You may want to believe that modern humans are superior to our evolutionary ancestors in every possible way, but all their crude, primal drives to survive and breed are hardwired into the primitive parts of our brain. Carry on believing that you're above all that if you wish, but just be aware that those drives are lurking way down in the darkest depths of your brain that you don't want to acknowledge, and they may just leap out one day and leave you astonished at what you want to do.
Yeah, no... Sex is amazing and beautiful. You forget about everything else and are there in the moment, with your girl, nothing else matters. It's just you and her.
Sharing a very intimate, intense and emotional experience together, savoring every touch, every kiss, every movement, every breath on each other's skin. Forget porn. Sex with someone you love is a lot more than shoving it in and out. Passionate sex, love, is at a much slower pace and deeply emotional.
Porn is grosser than doing it yourself most the time in my opinion lol. I think you just haven't really felt attracted to someone yet. Once you do and once you have good sex, you'll know what's up.
You don't say if you are male or female. I'm guessing female or gay male. There will come a time when you are gonna sit back and decide to rub one out. You will maybe think different one day.
I wish you had a multiple choice option for, "it depends", because that would, of course, be my choice.