I think people don´t like me

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So in the past i had a very big ego. I thought nowbody could be as pretty as i am, be so smart as i am or be so sweet. I thougt everybody loves me! And i also thougt that every girl is jealous. And i know it sounds wierd but for me it was all just like that. Boys loved me and i felt great.
Now a couple years later everything changed...
I have the felling that nowbody loves me,that im the ugliest person in the world and that i will die allone.
Boys don´t even notice me. I feel like everyone around me is so damn beatiful! it´s so strange... i feel alone.
I have no self-confidence anymore. And now when im at a party or something its like everyone is looking strange at me. But sometimes when i look at the mirror i feel pretty... i can not understand!

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  • m.a.s97
    12 years ago

    Everybody has a time in life where the feel insecure but keep your head and say good things about yourself out loud while alone, it'll give you a big confidence boost!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you based your confidence (ego) a lot on shallow attributes, and now that you don't get the same kind of attention, your "ego"/confidence is going downhill. Basically, stop being shallow lol

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    You had your big fall from arrogance, now try and find your way to the middle ground - it's between the underwater labyrinth of low self-esteem you're currently drowning in and the shiny, sparkling sky your massive head used to be floating in.

    Good luck! See you there!

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  • Twarrior
    12 years ago

    It's probably cuz they don't like you.

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  • DuinFlipsNshioT
    12 years ago

    Yea basically its low self-esteem its how lame not so hot guys like me hook up with chicks that are out of their league so keep it up. :P Sorry not helpful but just keep goin you'll get out of the rut or surround yourself with ugly women. haha

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    People perceive us as we perceive ourselves.

    If you want to change how others see you, you first have to conquer your own self doubts about your image and value.

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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago

    Karma

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  • ThatOneOtherPerson
    12 years ago

    You lost your ego.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    That's why vanity is bad! Look at everyone equal and treasure yourself regardless of your looks and soon you'll see you were beautiful all along. But don't be vain because you'll end up not liking yourself.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Something else changed in your life that makes you look at yourself differently. Not always a bad thing, take this time to improve you self worth with less shallow attributes, and then once again the true beauty will shine threw!

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