I think nothing is left in my life

I was a quiet person.Never say anything to anybody untill and unless its gone above my head.If somebody hurts me or shouted at me i never take revenge i simply punish myself.Sometimes i cry hard some times i kept rock silent.But now i am fed up of my life..I used to love person but that came to an end.Then after few years i start loving a new person but haha what a comic tragedy samething happens love triangle and i back off or i can say kicked off as a looser.Now i am not happy at all.I went outside,i tried making friends,i shop,i saw movies,i read books,i learn piano,i shop,i try makeover,i cook,i flirt,yoga,meditation,sex...everything i could do to make me happy but all in vain..Day by day i am dying inside.No interests..no passions,nothing.Now whenever i saw couples having good time,folding eachother in their arms,become lost in each other..i..i felt like shout a loud.My heart screams.I think i cant love anybody now..and without love how can a person live happily..tell me please is there someway out..Is it normal?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Damn...

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  • Pika-girl

    Become a bit more social. Learn the meanings of "happy", "fun", and "joy". Use them in life and enjoy the excitement all around you!

    The reason why it doesn't have a meaning is because you don't have people to enjoy your company. Talk a little more to others. They could become your friend. But just stick with the right group for you: don't choose anyone who you are uncomfortable with; they are least likely to be a best friend, unless by "uncomfortable", you mean you love them, then stay with them.

    Go to fun places. If you can't think of anything, go take a drive somewhere. You could also look for it on the Internet. This is a good way to spend your day. Also, bring your friends with you. This is also an opportunity to meet new people. Now, start the party!

    I hope this helps! ^¬^

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    • Pika-girl

      Now, choose out of you're friends, who you love most, and slowly progress in your relationship. It'll be easy once you're very good friends. Don't be afraid to wait for the romance. You don't wanna be stuck in the Friend Zone. Look up some ways, also!

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      • rachel.dsouza

        thanx

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  • jmac5977

    Nothing much left for me to add here. I'll just say that people are always going to let you down whether it's something major or minor. It's about how you respond to it. Also, when we invite people into our lives, we will always leave ourselves open to letdowns. The people we open ourselves up to have to be truly worthy of being in our presence if they're going to let us down from time to time. Make sure to bring people into your life who deserve you.

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    • rachel.dsouza

      you are pretty much right.I will take care of it.Thanks

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  • 777electric

    There's like a hundred of these post everyday

    Get a dog, go outside, take in nature.

    Kill someone or something, I dunno, something interesting.

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    • rachel.dsouza

      ok :)

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      • 777electric

        I'm glad I could help.

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        • rachel.dsouza

          surely...thanks

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  • Paradiddle

    I completely understand the feeling of envy when you see couples and you don't have an interest yours-wait what, did you just say you tried the piano? Shoot, music by itself is a great deal of affection! Do you still play?

    Seriously though, it sounds like you have and can do a lot of things to occupy your time but I feel like you have to love yourself first. Its really easy to become reliant on other people to be happy but if you do that, you'll just be let down when they aren't there. All those things you listed are more than enough to be happy but if you can't be happy with that, there won't be much more you can do. If you tell yourself nothing is left and make yourself sad, you will be no matter what you do. Sadness is way too mentally and physically damaging to keep. It makes sense then that being happy with yourself and living so you can have fun by yourself even when a significant other or friends aren't around will make you incredibly happy and energetic. Everyone's friends come and go and most people have experienced one-sided love and break ups, its normal, but you can't throw in the towel yet, have some fun!

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    • rachel.dsouza

      Thanks for your valued suggestion.I will try what you are saying. :)

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