I think my wife may be thinking of leaving

it's normal considering you're such a useless piece of shit. who has an affair with the child of the woman you love? you're a bastard who deserves to be alone. she's just too soft hearted to leave you. i really hope she finds happiness someday. you deserve to be alone.

why don't you just ask her all these things point blank? ask her if she's even e we thought about it. doesn't seem to me like you're 100% wanting to fight for the marriage. maybe it's time you two agree to end things instead of neither one of you trusting the other one. who wants to be in a marriage like that?

Yes, I'd say it's normal for her to be looking for a way out. Kudos for her for sticking with you even this long. When you say "affair," what do you mean exactly? ...because it sounds like your number-one goal should be to save face. I'm not being mean...I'm saying that sex crimes are the #1 hot topic in this country and police are prosecuting people left and right.

Guess what. That 16 year old can claim you raped her at ANY time for the rest of her live. Consent has little to nothing to do with it. Is this your wife's daughter? In a divorce, she could contest your infidelity with the 16-year-old. After the judge grants the divorce - he's gonna issue a bench warrant on your ass. I'm not damning you for doing it. Everyone makes mistakes, even huge ones....but that one can assure you prison time.

If you want to keep your wife, AngAnders is right: Have a 100% open feelings disclosure. Tell her you now fully realize the gravity of your mistake and convincingly assure her that she's the most important thing in your life. But only do that if it's true. After that, make some pretty drastic positive changes in WHO you are and be the guy she fell in love with.

Two wrongs don't make a right, so you shouldn't be "ok" with her having an affair or looking for greener pastures - BUT most people love revenge and I'm betting she wants to level the playing field. So, step one, follow the paragraph above. Step two, seek some counseling. Start going to it by yourself and tell her why you're doing it. Invite her to come after you've gone a few times. You can never fix your mistake - but you can walk a straight path from now on.

If this is how you behave you don't deserve a family or somebody who loves you. I hope she leaves you and finds a real man who doesn't need to fuck a kid to get his rocks off. You don't love her, and she has every right on this planet to question your devotion and to not love you back. You're not worth anybodies time or energy, please stop wasting this planet's resources by existing.

you dont deserve her you sound like a peice of shit.

She's just giving you a taste of your own medicine so you can feel what her life was like when you cleared off doing your own thing. She probably isn't planning to leave, she's just getting some revenge while she calms herself down.

I doubt you really love her - or you wouldn't have imposed this incredible hurt but just like all men, now you think you're losing your plaything it has become more valuable to you.

If I were you, I would do anything at all she asked - or else just leave. She may forgive but she will never forget - so be prepared to walk on eggshells for the rest of your life.

Sounds like you blew it mate!!

As you sow you shall reap.

Cant he get arrested for rapimg a minority?Whats your adress,sir i want to report you to the Authorities.

Well you started the ball rolling by having an affair with of all people your step daughter .what a waste of time you are she would be better off without you

Um he made a mistake? We all do stupid things...

Communication is the key.

You're retarded

Your fucked for screwing your step daughter and your wife is fucked for staying with you after learning about it. If she were to stay with you that would not be normal. Disgusting.