I think my girlfriend is a little bit racist

We all have preferences on what we like. I tend to have more attraction to my own race tho I’d date others, white is just what I have more attraction in. Just like how I also like brown eyes and hair more than other colors tho I date others and like it brown is just my biggest appeal and we all have things we like most. Sounds like her focus attraction isn’t on your exact race but she’s found you attractive. She may not be attracted to more blacks than another race but obviously will be some she finds attractive. Tho I guess this could be racist in some ways I feel like it’s fairly understandable.

It sounds like maybe she isnt usually attracted to black men, just you. That's not racist at all. It's just preference.

Japanese society is extremely racist and xenophobia is deeply rooted in the culture. If your girlfriend grew up in Japan - or if she grew up in a first-generation immigrant family - she will have absorbed those attitudes. She may not be consciously aware of them, but they'll still be there, even after she's been living in a different culture for years.

It seems pretty clear to me that what she said indicates that in her head, there's a stereotype of what a black man looks like, and that guy isn't very attractive. Maybe you should ask her if she's ever told a Japanese boyfriend that he was more handsome than other Japanese men, or if she's ever told a white boyfriend that he was more handsome than other white men. If she hasn't ever done that, then it suggests she thinks of such men as being "normal", while black men are "other".

At least she thinks ur more handsome than other black men

If she is a racist, what should she do about it? Do you want her to pretend she has different views from her actual ones, or should she try really hard to believe something that she's concluded isn't true? Maybe you would rather she just keep her thoughts to herself. Should all women do this, or just some of them?

This is all assuming, of course, that her views aren't correct. Is the fact that they don't coincide with your own evidence of that?

She is japanese, that's why. The japanese don't have the same openness towards other races as whites have, generally speaking, especially not blacks. This is mainly because of their homogenous society as opposed to the multi-ethnical western world. Also, which race you're most attracted to is not something you can control. I'm a white man and I find myself particularly attracted to certain ethnic groups over others. For example, I think Asians are really cute, especially those of eastern asia, such as your girlfriend. For whites, I'm mostly into slavic girls.

Racist we are all beautiful.

It's a backhanded compliment. She's basically saying "you're handsome for a black man" meaning in general she thinks black men are unattractive.

She's dating a black guy but you think she's racist?

Not racist at all wtf? You have been watching too much cnn.

Take it as a compliment. I don't think she's "racist", because if she WAS, she wouldn't be with you, and she wouldn't be dating ANY black guys.
It would be like me saying: " she's cute .... for an Eskimo ".

Every race has ugly, and also nice-looking.
I think you're over-thinking this.

If you find each other attractive, and care for each other.... end of story.

what? I don't think your able to read I was very clear in my question.

You dating Trump or any of his followers?, if so then I believe you.