I think my gf hates me iin

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Do you ever give your gf undivided attention and love and get the opposite in return. It seems like lately, she's been acting KINDA WEIRD. For instance, we snapchat a lot and she snapped me a picture of some pills. I asked her what they're for? She replies "one is for the headache, the other 3 to deal with you" :((( how can someone be so heartless.

Another instance is whenever we watch tv shows together, she wants to be the person in charge. She feels like my links I give to her to watch aren't good enough so she goes behind my back and uses other links (which I don't have a problem with but she won't tell me my flaws!!!!). I confronted her about this and she just calls me an idiot and let's me be. She won't even say I love you back when I say it to her after my long apologies. This has been going on for a couple weeks now. IIN? Should I break up with her??

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago | pl

    She sounds like she is mentally abusing u. There is no reason why she said or did those things... I feel bad for you.
    if I were u id leave her ...u can do better

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Would I be correct in saying this relatinship is online? You only seem to have mentioned spending time on forms of long distance communication.

    Regardless, yes, leave.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Jesus dude, get rid of her. How old are you two anyway?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Dump her like the big steaming pile of Scooby's doo she is!

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  • CloverFish
    9 years ago

    She doesn't sound like she would even make a good friend. If you can't get it out of her about why she's treating you like that, then's there's little room to fix it. There might be more to context here, but as far as what you said she isn't worth it. If she's making you feel more miserable than happy, you know the answer.

    Just don't let her manipulate you into staying with her if she keeps making you feel like garbage. Mental abusers tend to try and do that when the other person tries to pull away.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Why not just ask her?
    I could see a few causes for those behaviors, for example she may be joking about the pill comment, like doing things herself and is uncomfortable expressing emotions.
    Then again she may be intentionally mean.

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  • ToxicCrayons
    9 years ago

    you're a pussy.

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  • AlphaQ
    9 years ago

    Break up with her. Better you than her. You can do better. If she truly loves you she will come back. If not she never did.

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  • Gallieon
    9 years ago

    Go silent on her. Pretend you suddenly never existed to begin with. Nothing gets to a girl than not knowing why (or knowing why but never really getting confirmation)

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    Leave.

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  • TimmyTheTurtle
    9 years ago

    sounds like a good woman.. you should stick it out and wait for things to get better.

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